Hi, I am a new member to these forums. I am a newbie when it comes to girls.
I guess I'll get started with it. I recently entered university, and I was interesting in talking to a girl who I've known for almost 5 years. In the past, she liked me on more than one occasion, but I was never interested.
During the first week of university, we texted a lot and I even managed to get to her place a few times, as her dorm was very close to mine. Me being clueless, didn't realize the significance in this.
One night, we ended up hanging out for hours just talking. She started coming on to me, first by hugs, then when I was leaving, she started kissing me. At this point, I was a little confused. I realize now I should of kissed her back, but at the time I didn't know what I was doing. After that night, I started liking her.
That was 4 weeks ago. Since then we've been texting. Not too long after that day, she told me she was not interested, and that night meant nothing to her. A week later as an attempt to move on, I ignored her for an entire day. As a result, I got 8+ texts and 3 calls. She then said "I've devloped some feelings." The very next day she took back everything she said back when we met up in person..
The next week I decided to move on again, and told her I was over her. the next day she proceeded to pull me back in by saying how she 'likes' the fact that I like her.
Every time we meet up, I feel like I can't see the signs, I realize after and feel stupid.
This is 2 weeks from that point, I recently told her I'm done, and she asked if we could still be friends. So currently we are..
She says I don't "turn her on." I agree, I've been very cold every time we meet up, but I realize it always too late.
My question is, How can I get her back? I know I've made many mistakes, But I think I can seal the deal. I really like her, and can't seem to get over her. I think I can make the necessary changes, but I just don't know how to get her crawling back. any advice?
-also i'm very open with her, she knows I like her.