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    deve66 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need help with beautiful girl from work.

    So heres my deal. there is this girl from work, ive liked her for awhile. she has been giving me lots of IOIs so I went for it.
    things were good, we slept together, my game was perfect.
    But now im just falling flat, my text game sucks. im trying but it seems shes just not having it.
    I have no Idea where shes at with this whole thing.
    We both just got out of relationships a couple of months ago. not to sure if i was just a rebound f-ing for her.

    there is more. I slept with one of her best friends, before I even knew this girl. and her friend told her to stay away from me and not talk to me.

    not really sure what to do in this situation. and need some advice.

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    Default Re: need help with beautiful girl from work.

    Oh man awkward situation. Not sure what you want out of this. But in any awkward situation I find that just calling it out helps. Talk about the elephant in the room.

    "After thinking about it I realized that I must look like a complete douche for messing with your friend before you. Wasn't my brightest moment. I should leave that out of my memoirs."

    Of course I could be wrong
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: need help with beautiful girl from work.

    You slept with her friend and her friend warned her about you yet she still slept with you. This is likely one of two things; she thinks her friend was just a lay-up and doesn't want to get caught in the same situation so shes breaking it off before you can. Or knowing that you were just in it to get some before she may just wanna fark. I suggest pointing out the elephant like Batman said if she tells you it bothered her than you can try to convince her that's not what your all about and have a relationship with her. If she doesn't care chances are she just wanted to fark in which cause you can try to be friends with benefits but you won't get a relationship out of her.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: need help with beautiful girl from work.

    See I slept with her friend a couple of years ago. and thats a whole other complicated story.
    Im trying to figure out if she testing me or something. Im getting so many mixed signals from her and its driving me crazy.
    I know I need to bring up the elephant in the room. not really to sure how to bring it up just yet.
    I can see myself with this girl, definitley girlfriend material.


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