Well, there is this Nubian hottie in the complex here.

I have a medium-sized pad and she almost always sits next to me. Tries the 'neg' thing, she'll even start touching me first, before I get to it. Each time she throws more and stronger IOIs, but I don't want to jack it up, she is a prize to everyone around. I'm trying to figure how I can walk the line of confident, bold, alpha that sees and takes what he wants in contrast to not jealous, easily frustrated, and social. Advice fellas, I don't want to be anti-social with the others, but I get the vibe that they don't want me to get what they can't get either.

Which by the way, might be why we 'magically' end up hanging out.
Questions, comments, concerns, or advice?