I'll try and make this as short as poss. but I want to give the whole pic. About 2 months ago I was invited by a buddy to go out on his boat to be his wing man for a girl that was bringing her best-friend who had a boyfriend. I went to help him out, no expectations and the 4 of us had a great time! BTW this girl was an HB8.
Fast forward to a month later he invited me again and told me I should go cuz his girls best-friend(HB8) broke up with her bf. I wasn't up for it so i declined. Then again 2 weeks later he asks me to go, because HB8 would only go if I did. So I did and we had an amazing time, she initiated keno at beginning and end with hugs. HB8 even said it was the perfect day! So we decided to go on a double date and we all went great, she initiates keno again and tells me she had a great time.
So I get her number, set up a dinner for just the 2 of us. We go out to a nice dinner all goes great. Since we both recently got out of relationships I didn't try to k-close but she always initiated the hug. We then decide to go to a concert with the other couple. So i pick her up for the concert and we meet up at her best-friends house to do a little pre partying. All goes great so we get to the concert and I thought I'd turn it up a little and initiate keno by putting my arm around her and i notice that shes a little uncomfortable so i back off. By the end of the concert she does it to me. We had a great time, at the end of the night her friend from work meets up and decides to go sleep at HB8's house so I don't have to give her a ride. She gives me a hug and tells me she had a great time. She texts me when she gets home and tells me she's home safe, thanks me for a great night. I'm thinking this is great!
Next day I text with one of the usual funny openers and I get nothing. I wait till that night and text her again. Here are the texts after no response:
Me: Hey you little swan, you're not in jail are you ? :-)
HB8: Little swan?! Haha I was ...Now on the way home
Me: I'm glad you go out! Get home safe and enjoy the weekend with your mom and sis.
Then no response. I don't text her all next day (Sat). Then i decide to text her on Sunday with:
Me: Thinking about me and smiling
No response again. So I never texted her again but I'm like wtf? Today I find out from my friend that she thinks I'm too much like her ex and "doesnt want to make a lateral move". WTF? The whole situation is kind of weird to me. So its not like I'm crazy about this girl or anything, I just thought she was a cool chick. I would have never thought about pursuing her if she didn't initiate.
So I know this is really long but any thoughts or advice on the situation would be appreciated.