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  1. #1
    Mr. Fox is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default please help me improve my game and get dates..

    Hello everyone,

    my last relationship ended two years ago. i find on POF i get very few replies and when i do and get to meet them i find theres always something i do not like about them.

    i find women on facebook, add them, make cocky/funny comments on their photos and then send a message.

    i have been out to bars and clubs with another guy (who gets far better responses than i get). also with a group of friends from my running club, which is usually more successful and i get some phone numbers. however they only go out about once a month and i like to be out every week, so i often go out on my own.

    most of my friends are either married or in a relationship, and i am starting to wonder why i am not.

    i have never spent loads of money on a woman or given compliments, etc. although i have done thoughtful things which cost very little or nothing.

    please let me know how i can improve me game. i have read a lot of david deangelo stuff which has taught me a lot (but is very expensive).

    currently i live with my parents. however i have plans to start building my own house.

    also i am talking to a woman on facebook who i like and added (even though we have never met) and i commented on her

    "nice hair. is it real?"
    she replied "absolutely."

    i sent her a message "hi dude. hows you?" x
    "hi, im good, you?" x
    been busy with my life. going for a run later. what you up to this week?" x
    "How do we know each other? Ive been trying to work it out" x


    (we actually dont know each other and if shes been trying to work it out, its nice to know she at least thought of me. any advice is appreciated).

    thank you for reading guys!!

    regards
    Eddie.

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    dave-fun is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: please help me improve my game and get dates..

    Hi

    I still got some people on Fb or other online sites or even over my phone that I've not met and this is one of the weaknesses I discovered in me that I ended up learning a lot later on.

    General advise: Get to meet her otherwise dont waste much time on her emotionally.

    If your first date game is ok then you are safe. If not, read more stuff here or in books and improve it in practice. Meet more and more and every time improve it over. I do agree that many girls in online sites are not interesting but some are!

    I've met 20-30 in last months to get one or two good ones out of them. And you need to know your game to keep those one or two interested.

    Moreover, your question is too general. Go more specific to get a better and more solid reply from others.
    My 2 cents!

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    tormentor is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: please help me improve my game and get dates..

    You lead off with "nice hair, is it real?'.....dude, build some rapport before you start teasing her. Especially about her hair.

    You worked the "lets get together' angle with a girl you didnt know on facebook? Chicks call that creepy.

    If you expect to get POF replies you need to have one hell of an elevator statement. (a catchy, quick one or two sentence introduction about yourself) Shes scanning 50 emails a day, yours needs to stand out.
    If you are going to exchange written texts/emails with a woman, stay away from text speak IE "Hey, what r u up 2 2day?'...try something that sets your texts apart "Hey, what kind of adventures do you have planned this afternoon?'

    If you are going out by yourself, focus your efforts on places where people meet on a 1 to 1 setting. (gym, the mall, the grocery store, etc) Going to a bar by yourself is tough, as you will rip yourself up mentally while you are standing there idle. Nobody wants to be that lone guy standing by himself, its an ego wrecker.

    Lastly, stop stressing man. Most of your married friends will be divorced and wont know how to get back into the game. Stop looking at the end state (will I have a relationship, will I get married) and start enjoying the journey. Go at this to have fun, dont be so analytical about it. All the stuff you read here is ADVICE, use what you can, throw out the rest. Find what works for you and work it.

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    Mr. Fox is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: please help me improve my game and get dates..

    thanks guys!!

    so have i totally screwed up with this woman?? it doesnt take much does it. shall i lean back and not message her for a while.

    i like the idea of the 1 to 1 setting. i often have conversations with women during the day, but never think about asking for their number.

    these were my last two dates

    1. went out with a dance choreographer, but after i found out she has a boyfriend i refused to see her.

    2. went out with a beauty therapist, but she works long hours and have seen her once in two months.

    is match any good??

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    tormentor is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: please help me improve my game and get dates..

    You went out with a dance choreographer, and you ended it because she had a boyfriend? Dude, go punch yourself in the dick. First off, you had enough game to convince her to cheat on her BF, that alone is awesome. Secondly, why is a boyfriend your concern? Go out with her, have a good time, let her deal with the BF problem. Quit taking the moral high ground, all it does is send you home alone. You arent looking for a wife, you are looking for an eventful evening. Nuff said.

    Ditch the beauty therapist. I often work 80 hours a week with constant travel and I still manage to see 2 or 3 girls a month. Shes avoiding you.

    Unless you got really preachy with the dancer...call he back and tell her you want to learn to ballroom dance. Take it from there.

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    Mr. Fox is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: please help me improve my game and get dates..

    well i am a dancer (a streetdancer) and i just prefer to see girls who are single. i think its less hassle. the dance choreographer is a member of our dance club and whenever i text her she always made herself available for me (she has a size 8 figure). i will see her again because shes in our next show and hopefully she will then be single.

    btw is match.com any good?

    also have i really screwed up with this girl in facebook? she always replies with a "x"


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