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    deve66 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default girl at work want to be friends.

    okay so i slept with this girl. I thought everything was going great. then i was stupid and brought it up. I got the whole "i want to be friends" even with a please. and then the i still think your an awesome guy. I always take that as i want nothing to do with you. But I still like this girl. what do you think I should do? should i freeze her out? or am i just chasing a lost cause?

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    Default Re: girl at work want to be friends.

    well im glad you know where you went wrong, and i would like to say that your right, that is where it went lol, as far as what to do next, i would freeze her out but only after asking my question by saying, " so ive been thinking about how you said i was an awesome guy, and i was just curious as to why i was an awesome enough guy to sleep with, but only once?" thats just me. no girl is a lost cause, if you know what your doing.
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    Default Re: girl at work want to be friends.

    No girl is a lost cause, but sometimes they just really do want nothing to do with you afterwards.

    Do you feel that you think she's done with you?

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    Default Re: girl at work want to be friends.

    it really doesnt matter, im telling ya, you can change a girls opinion of you no matter how she feels.
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    Default Re: girl at work want to be friends.

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    it really doesnt matter, im telling ya, you can change a girls opinion of you no matter how she feels.
    You can but you need to know what to change it to and why she is buffering you away. It also works in reverse. There are plenty of women I sleep with and then am not too concerned about seeing them again. No matter how hard they try it won't budge me on my core feelings...however I might sleep with them again if it's easy on my behalf and they were good lovers.

    This is perhaps how you have to approach her. You need to change her opinion from seeing you as an 'awesome' guy to a 'sexy casual' guy. She may be saying 'lets just be friends' because deep down you are not compatible for a LTR and your behavior might be intentionally or unintentionally sending those signals. Next time just say 'Im not going to be your shopping buddy and Im not asking you to marry me!! Come over tonight...I know you want to feel my lips trace across your body again'.

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: girl at work want to be friends.

    [QUOTE=
    You need to change her opinion from seeing you as an 'awesome' guy to a 'sexy casual' guy.[/QUOTE]

    and that is how i would change her opinion as well. were both saying the same thing just elaborating on it differently
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