I started this on another thread but escalating as I need some advice.
Went on a date with this HB8. Super cool chic. We got along really well. Built up a lot of attraction. Lots of flirting, teasing, push-pull...she gave me a lot of signals. We sat close together. I was putting my hand on her back, arm, hair. She seemed to like it as we got more physical. several times I captivated her on a subject she was really interested in and she was staring deep in my eyes.
We had a really brief kiss (like 6 seconds) and she put her head down and laughed shyly (this was not the shy type of girl BTW).
Then outside we said goodbye. Kissed her again - this time for a second and she stopped and giggled and I said something goofy and she said "stay in touch".
Waited 3 days and texted her:
Me: Hey _____. I had A good time hanging out with u the other night. U have a lot of depth. Lmk if u want to go riding or hiking sometime.
Her: Hey~ i though we had great conversation, i thought it was a pretty good date, thank you. But i felt nothing when we kissed. I keep having this happen, i feel completly platonic with most all guys i meet :/ sooo, if you can honestly handle platonicness, cool,if not, dont bother bc i am seriously numb & its no ones job to try& fix that. I also have a lot of goals abo ur to blossom, music is a big part of what i am doing professionally, so i am definitly down to expand my circle.
I have not responded. Is there anything here I can say or do to get back and take another go at converting her? Or is she a lost cause? She probably has some hot friends if I can get her to set me up.