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    digihwood3233 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl turned off by kiss - how to save it

    I started this on another thread but escalating as I need some advice.

    Went on a date with this HB8. Super cool chic. We got along really well. Built up a lot of attraction. Lots of flirting, teasing, push-pull...she gave me a lot of signals. We sat close together. I was putting my hand on her back, arm, hair. She seemed to like it as we got more physical. several times I captivated her on a subject she was really interested in and she was staring deep in my eyes.

    We had a really brief kiss (like 6 seconds) and she put her head down and laughed shyly (this was not the shy type of girl BTW).

    Then outside we said goodbye. Kissed her again - this time for a second and she stopped and giggled and I said something goofy and she said "stay in touch".

    Waited 3 days and texted her:

    Me: Hey _____. I had A good time hanging out with u the other night. U have a lot of depth. Lmk if u want to go riding or hiking sometime.


    Her: Hey~ i though we had great conversation, i thought it was a pretty good date, thank you. But i felt nothing when we kissed. I keep having this happen, i feel completly platonic with most all guys i meet :/ sooo, if you can honestly handle platonicness, cool,if not, dont bother bc i am seriously numb & its no ones job to try& fix that. I also have a lot of goals abo ur to blossom, music is a big part of what i am doing professionally, so i am definitly down to expand my circle.

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    I have not responded. Is there anything here I can say or do to get back and take another go at converting her? Or is she a lost cause? She probably has some hot friends if I can get her to set me up.

    Thoughts?
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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl turned off by kiss - how to save it

    How old is this girl? Numb to kissing and its a problem she has had with other men?

    Ok I once knew a girl that didnt like kissing on the lips but anywhere else I kissed her drove her mad. Also when I was 18 was fondling the hell out of a girl and she said a similar thing. This is why I asked about age.

    Maybe next time make it more sexual and kiss her around the neck and even higher back area. Grab her breasts and push your groin into her. See how she responds to that. It may just be a kiss on the lips thing. I would ignore whatever she says about being plutonic and you can't change her. If she truly is a woman with zero sex drive or feelings I wouldnt be bothering anyway. But that would have to be a rare case. She may be young and not quite sure about her sexuality yet. There could be all sorts of insecurities within her that are not letting her relax.

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    digihwood3233 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl turned off by kiss - how to save it

    She's 28. I've never had a girl decide there's no spark after a 5 second kiss. It's weird. We had serious chemistry and attraction but apparently she expects lightning bolts when lips connect. I know she's got a very high sex drive - she told me some shit about her past and clearly loves to get down.
    Just screwed up I guess.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl turned off by kiss - how to save it

    Quote Originally Posted by digihwood3233 View Post
    She's 28. I've never had a girl decide there's no spark after a 5 second kiss. It's weird. We had serious chemistry and attraction but apparently she expects lightning bolts when lips connect. I know she's got a very high sex drive - she told me some sh1t about her past and clearly loves to get down.
    Just screwed up I guess.
    Maybe but like I said, some girls are just not into kissing much but get off on other things. So as I said before I would try arouse her other ways and not place such an emphasis on the kiss.


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