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    Default Need some help from the PUA experts!

    So I've just recently made an online dating profile for the very first time (to try my luck) and I've already received messages from two cute girls.

    Girl #1 (First message from me)

    "How are you?

    To start off, I know what you might be thinking. You probably receive a lot of "Hi, what's up" messages every day, especially from guys who probably give their phone numbers out real fast, or something like that, haha. However, when I viewed your profile, you seemed to have quite a few similar characteristics that I do. Also, it doesn't hurt that you're adorable looking too "

    Her reply:

    "I’m doing fabulous, how are you doing? Thanks a lot for the compliment btw. You’re not bad yourself, quite a handsome fellow you are. :-) "

    My recent reply:

    "You're very welcome, but I didn't just decide to message you simply for compliments. No matter how much it may be warranted.

    You said you have a creative mind. How about indulging me into that creative mind of yours? I'm always up for a challenge "

    That's the latest message, I'm going to post girl #2 later. Basically, do you guys think I'm taking the right approach with her? Her profile said she has a creative mind, so I went to that aspect to try and get her thinking, which I've actually been doing with other profiles. I feel like if you take something out of their profile that you're actually taking the time to read it.

    Thank you for any advice you give!

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    No replies : (

    Should I go straight to Girl #2? Lol

    I actually think I should cause that one is questioning me somewhat.

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    Bump

    Her reply:

    "I am the biggest challenge you are going to take on."

    Mine:

    "Over confident, I like it. I've had people tell me that they were the biggest challenge, but it turned out to be not so much a challenge. I'd like to know what would make you any different?"

    Her latest reply:

    "There is only one way to find out, take me on as a challenge. "

    Is it okay to send her a meet in person request, or reply back with another message?

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    My latest reply:

    "Challenge accepted. Do you think we could take this to a more convenient place? Perhaps Skype?"

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    Your opener was very casual and I like it.

    If you want to bring out her creative mind then ask her something a little more specific. Otherwise you risk her feeling like the question takes too much work to answer.

    Congratulations!!! You have just successfully reinforced the idea that she is the challenge to be earned instead of you. You have just made it harder on yourself lol. It should be fun.

    Oh and my guess is she will decline the Skype invite. Just for the sake of being challenging. You got to change the frame that you are the prize instead.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    Thanks Bat, I feel like you're the only one that replies to my threads, lol. Great advice on both threads.

    If she does decline it, what should I say following that?

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    No one responds because they don't like you.

    Hahaha I'm teasing. That's terrible. I work overnights so I miss the daytime traffic on the forums. Try posting at different times.

    Hmm maybe respond with "Ok just checking on the challenging thing. I don't have a Skype silly. I got Oovoo. But I should get a Skype."

    To try and switch it around say this "I love a good chase. But I will only chase you so long before I lose interest. So you have to suck me in before then :P"
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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    The "I love a good chase. But I will only chase you so long before I lose interest. So you have to suck me in before then :P" is a good one. I may use that depending on what she replies with.

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    So i send her the skype message, and this was her reply:

    "What is that actually?"

    Huh? Even if you don't have an account there, most people would know what it is. Am I being played here, or do you think she genuinely might not know what it is?

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    Default Re: Need some help from the PUA experts!

    Yea that is weird. It sounds like it's similar to when you ask for her phone to put your number into and she "can't find it in her purse" lol. Take it as your way out and move onto another topic. Don't even respond to that message. Like she didn't say anything. If she really doesn't know then she will continue to push you to answer her.

    When a woman reaches a point that she is asking you questions about YOU as man (Ex: what do you look for in a woman?) it's a good sign that she will accept your phone number or Skype invite.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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