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Thread: Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

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    Default Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

    Before my sarging days when I was total AFC I had a big party at my house and a lot of girls came who I met for the first time.

    Being AFC, I texted these two girls, who are friends, a couple times to hang out and not getting the signal that they weren't down at all. I think they just gave me a chance at one point and we did hang out and I smoked weed with them (which I gave them.)

    Anyways, I then still msged/texted them to hangout and I think they started to feel that I was a bit creepy, then kinda ignored them.

    Anyway now they're back in my social circle and ruining my rep, so I decided to msg them and say hi.

    When I tried to start a conversation with her via FB chat she just said she doesn't wanna talk. I replied saying wow are you always this talkative? Then she said that I use and talk to so many girls it's gross, she doesn't like what I'm about and doesn't wanna talk. So I replied saying lol ok... Then she msged back "Asshole"

    I now have women galore and don't really care about her. I just want to convey to her that, that's not really me and I'm not like that. Mainly because they'll ruin my rep around the school she goes to and her and her friends tend to have or go to all the parties.

    - Should I just ignore? (that didn't work, or maybe if I waited longer it would have but still have always been awkward)
    - Brush it off saying LOL ok whatever... and yah ok you think that..
    - Be all down to heart and apologize and say that I'm not really like that, I've changed.
    - Bring my bro, who hooked up with her, into the play? Get him to say to her that I'm chill, sometimes he comes off weird but you gotta get to know him, etc?

    Need to repair this... thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

    I don't think you should do ANY of the things you suggested. I have good reasons why as well.

    In my opinion I think you should approach her with the mindset "Yea I'm an asshole. And you still like it." Don't verbalize this, otherwise you risk being blown out. Don't apologize for who you are. Get her to try and EARN that sensitive part of you. Tell her things like "If I liked you then maybe you'd see how I really am." You cannot care about her opinion of you. Even if you think it may be true.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

    I got news for u... people will talk and try to ruin your rep EVEN WHEN THEY HAVE NO REASON TO DO SO. World is full of haters... and haters can be male or female.

    As batman said, dont be concerned with what anyone thinks of you. Maybe that girl knows she can mess u up because she affects lots of parties. By having fun in your life and not worrying so much about stuff you have no control over (i.e. people talking about u) you really give her a big Fark u lol.

    And one last thing... if your game is good, women will still be attracted to u... maybe even more so. If u game correctly, girls will find you attractive DESPITE what haters say. And this 'i've been told to stay away but i am attracted' feeling they get only adds to your badboy mystique. The HB feel like the badboy must be tamed ... that others are wrong... he's really nice underneath. Again, if u game properly.
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    Default Re: Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

    Update... Chilled with some of her friends since and nothing was brought up about it. Time heals everything, no real reason to stress out anyone

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    Default Re: Girl thinks I'm asshole and ruining rep...

    So the lesson is... DONT stress over things you cant control. Keep your frame always (and read Red Barons threads about frame control).
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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