ive been toying around with the following opener to mesage girls both on POF and facebook and it has had an 80% success rate. Women love role play and besides thta it is funny and random they are engaged to respond.
"haha I know this is probably the most random message ever but..lets fly to Vegas and get married by the fattest Elvis impersonator we can find!"
Ill then follow up with "you kept popping up under the people you may know tab every other time id refesh my page (probably a sign from FB lol) So I had to message you."
I know girls like to read this cuz it shows like its an act of "fate" very romantic comedy style.
Now after this...what would be a good question/statement to then continue to engage her and try to number close her via facebook???