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Thread: First Thread - Freindzoned?

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    Default First Thread - Freindzoned?

    This is my first thread so go easy on me. There's this girl that I've known for about two years. She's everything I want and I really like her. But lately after getting into 'The Game', PUA forums, etc. I've started wondering am I getting too far into the friend zone and how should I get out?

    She tells me via Facebook and texts what's going on in her life. I start getting all these IOIs from her but she seems to just see me as a friend. And to top it off I've got this Alpha friend who just basically uses girls, who keeps talking about her.

    I don't see myself ending up with her but I'd like to get her to prove to my friend and more importantly to prove to myself that I have the ability to get girls.

    Cheers - Griffin

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    Default Re: First Thread - Freindzoned?

    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: First Thread - Freindzoned?

    The first issue that you may need to deal with is your alpha friends it seems like he wants to move in and just like the other ladies just use her. Iíve been in a few situations like that before but not recent memory, and if your lady friend does end up going out with him anything you say against him she would take as you being jealous and would destroy friendships with both. The best thing you could do is start developing your alpha skills, and go for your own, and donít wait for her approval to see you another way, and donít tell your friends to much information about her. You like her and want her so step up to the plate and like Tyrone said read about the friendzone and using triangles to your advantage.

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    Default Re: First Thread - Freindzoned?

    I am a firm believer there's no immediate way out of the friendzone, especially when you're in a deep as you are. Save yourself a huge amount of time and frustration and forget about her. Stop talking to her altogether. This is the same story that many guys come to this story for; fall for a girl and it doesn't get anywhere than a year or two later realize they're stuck in the friendzone. The reason you must stop talking to her altogether though is because even if you tell yourself the same bullshit story myself and all the others did, that you can accept just being friends, you can't. In the back of your head you'll always be choosing your potential girl friends and hook-ups biased on her reaction. Instead you need to take all this frustration from the two years and learn material, practice it until you can get HBs and date whenever you want. Instead of trying to prove to your friend that you can get girls when you can't right now, learn from him and other guys here until you're better than him. If after not talking to her for maybe a year or two years you meet and you're a different person then you'll be out of the friendzone. Its simple you cannot escape the friendzone while you're still friends.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: First Thread - Freindzoned?

    Thanks guys, all this is really helpful. I've decided to improve my abilities before going back and giving it a go with her. This is really great. Cheers.


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