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    Default I'm her best friend...

    A girl who I like and was dealing with confirmed her
    Feelings for me, she sees me as ONLy a friend. I told her
    Today I don't want to be her friend anymore after
    A big argument (over text) and she ends up telling me
    I'm her best friend.

    Shot what to do now? I've already accepted nothing will
    Progress but im finding it hard to 'just' be friends.

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    OK guy welcome but seriouslly spell check bro, its extremley difficult to help you if you can barely be understood.

    You are saying she says she likes you
    you argue with her over the phone
    dont want to be friends anymore
    and now you can not accept being 'just' friends????

    this is confusing, who likes who?
    if she likes you only as a friend, move on find other girls to DHV, sarge and after closing with other girls this girl will not be so special
    if u dont like her and she likes you, dont lead the poor girl on and just let her go

    good luck

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    Sorry I'm on my phone. I like her, she does not like me
    In the same way. I'm just a really good friend who apparently
    She does not want to lose. But I'm finding it hard
    To stick around as just friends.

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    Then don't stick around as friends mate, just go no contact for a while and see what happens, you've got to do what's best for you and not get stuck on one girl if it ain't g to happen, date other girls and she probably won't seem as special anymore

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    I agree...freeze her out and go sarge other girls...I know it's easier said than done but try to think of ANYTHING except this girl...if you can effectively DHV by attracting other women in your life...using the freeze out she'll come running back to you.
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    IT seems counter intuitive (opposite) of what you want right: ignore the girl you like ?wtf?? but trust your bros when we say the less you care, the more she does. You can freeze her out but if she txt/calls tell her you would really love to talk to her but heading out for a date (even if your not) that will build jelousy and intrest. The more you show her your not her boytoy and a REAL MAN who will not take her shit, the more she will respect you as a man!

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    Dude dont let yourslef be a doormat! Your better than that. Go no contact like the boys said. Go out with some friends and sarge hit on other women! You must keep busy and not worry about her, worry about you! Being friendzoned sucks trust me I know I only wish I knew about the community and had the advice you have at the moment! You can change your situation I couldn't because I didn't know how, but you do!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    This has been going on for about a month. I did freeze
    Her out once and she came running back saying
    She likes me but she took it back the next day. Now she sees
    Me as a friend. Today we got into a large argument, the thing is
    I was in the process of freezing her while this occurred so now it will be weird
    If I just ignore her for another while since we made up.

    I'm in the process of talking to other girls right now anyway, I just
    Think she is different from most girls, her standards are crazy high
    And she constantly tells me how Im not her type.

    I can't kino escalate as a result because she doesn't want
    Me touching her. I already accepted that I'll fail with her but
    When she told me she considered me a best friend I don't know
    I thought that had some significance

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    Then go hardcore, if she knows you like her then tell her you don't want to be just friends with her, tell her if she can't handle that then she'll just have to deal with life without you, then go no contact......granted you could lose her, I can't remember what PUA said this but someone (take my word that whoever it was they were a genius) said : 'if you want her, you having to be willing to risk losing her'.
    But then it could lead to her coming running back and you forking her all night

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I'm her best friend...

    Interesting. I'll give it a shot


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