i work this girl, shes about 7 years older than me. she has a boyfriend but things have been shaky for them. he might be going away for a year in a few months. I just recently got dumped by my girl friend. shortly after the girl at work found out, she started being extremely flirty, i mean EXTREMELY. she sent me pictures of herself in lingerie. she took a picture of herself the morning before work and sent it to met at work. i asked if it was from earlier in the week and she said no this is from this morning. then without me saying anything says "so thats the underwear im wearing today lolo" we also text a bit outside of work and this past tuesday in one of our convos. she made comments about me being good looking, being smart etc, and then she made a reference to the movie the graduate with dustin hoffman, where the older woman seduces dustin hoffman. this was immediatly after i said " its too bad there arent more girls like you around" her reply, "heres to you mrs robinson " i made a comment about older women finding me irresistable (mostly drunken married women at bars) and she replies "I can vouch for that fact". also the past few days we have been taking turns getting each other coffee before work. actually yesterday morning i wake up to text asking me what i wanted. today she suprised me with the same thing i ordered a few days ago.... at first i thought she might have been trying to cheer me up and what not, but it seems undeniable shes coming on to me. it just sucks because she works DIRECTLY with me, i trained her at her job, etc. also she has this bf who completely takes her for granted. i also really like this girl. shes such a sweatheart, so caring, wicked cool, funny, we share similar interests like music movies etc. i think im falling for this girl a bit, its just the boyfriend thing i dont want to affect her relationship at all. the whole thing is wicked confusing for me. any pointers guys? i wouldnt have a problem pointing the OBVIOUS flaws in her boyfriend but i dont want it to seem like im trying to get into her pants, because thats really not my intention. shes just a great girl and she is BEAUTIFUL (to ME a HB9 because her personality is wonderful and she is incredibly sexy) and she loves guitar players.
PS sorry for being all over the place with this post, as you can see i am having trouble organizing thoughts.