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    Question the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    i work this girl, shes about 7 years older than me. she has a boyfriend but things have been shaky for them. he might be going away for a year in a few months. I just recently got dumped by my girl friend. shortly after the girl at work found out, she started being extremely flirty, i mean EXTREMELY. she sent me pictures of herself in lingerie. she took a picture of herself the morning before work and sent it to met at work. i asked if it was from earlier in the week and she said no this is from this morning. then without me saying anything says "so thats the underwear im wearing today lolo" we also text a bit outside of work and this past tuesday in one of our convos. she made comments about me being good looking, being smart etc, and then she made a reference to the movie the graduate with dustin hoffman, where the older woman seduces dustin hoffman. this was immediatly after i said " its too bad there arent more girls like you around" her reply, "heres to you mrs robinson " i made a comment about older women finding me irresistable (mostly drunken married women at bars) and she replies "I can vouch for that fact". also the past few days we have been taking turns getting each other coffee before work. actually yesterday morning i wake up to text asking me what i wanted. today she suprised me with the same thing i ordered a few days ago.... at first i thought she might have been trying to cheer me up and what not, but it seems undeniable shes coming on to me. it just sucks because she works DIRECTLY with me, i trained her at her job, etc. also she has this bf who completely takes her for granted. i also really like this girl. shes such a sweatheart, so caring, wicked cool, funny, we share similar interests like music movies etc. i think im falling for this girl a bit, its just the boyfriend thing i dont want to affect her relationship at all. the whole thing is wicked confusing for me. any pointers guys? i wouldnt have a problem pointing the OBVIOUS flaws in her boyfriend but i dont want it to seem like im trying to get into her pants, because thats really not my intention. shes just a great girl and she is BEAUTIFUL (to ME a HB9 because her personality is wonderful and she is incredibly sexy) and she loves guitar players.


    PS sorry for being all over the place with this post, as you can see i am having trouble organizing thoughts.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    First of all it's so blatant she wants you, obv her and her bf aren't great or she would not be sending you pictures of her in lingerie, therefore by my logic if you like her then go for it, obv the work thing makes it more complicated but not impossible, and if you are going to do it then do not point out the obv flaws in her bf you need to run some boyfriend destroyer and she will do that for you good luck.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    it is obvious but i dont know a good way to go about it. and i havent had ANY experience running a BF destroyer, i get the idea behind it but i dont think i will be able to think quick enough on my toes to pull it off.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    It seems like you won't even necessarily need bf destroyer. She came onto you first and she sent you pictures in her lingerie. She definitely likes you and clearly doesn't like her "current" bf anymore. If you really like her, then go for it man.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    Well then you might not need to use it to be fair, depends what you want from it because it sounds like you could probably f close her, if you want to be with her then bf destroyer is the only way forward as far as I can see, unless she is that into you that she would leave him.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    ill look into the boyfriend destroyer a bit more. this is a girl i could totally date, even though it seems highly likely she would id rather not influence her to cheat. trying to do this as legit as possible without being the scumbag.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    That doesn't seem highly likely to me tbh, if she's sending you pics of her in lingerie I'm pretty sure her bf would be pretty pissed about that, she quite obv just isnt that bothered, maybe she will be when it comes to proper cheating but I doubt it.

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    So what do you think moving forward? I don't work tomorrow but she does, should i text her or wait until we work together to start working things... I'm just new to this, my experience with women, and I've been with a few compared to my friends (most of which are AFC) is usually just shear luck, unless I have hidden game I don't know about haha

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    Personally since she has a bf the way I would do it is to start ramping up the kino in work and see what sort of reaction your getting, grab her hips if you have to squeeze past is always a good one, also try to see how far the flirting can go, tell her that her ass looks good with them heels on, or ask if her tits are bigger than they were, all this has to be joking and fun or u'll look creepy, if your getting really good responses then I'd try to close somewhere private at work......risky but soo much fun depends how much risk you want to take because you could just ask her for a drink and do it that way.......I personally find the risk fun though

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    Default Re: the girl at work has been coming on to me, what to do?

    im just worried i might creep her out. but its good advice, i mean she sent me a picture of her ass, made a comment about seducing a younger guy. im just over analyzing and need to step it up and quit being suck a wuss


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