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    Default awkward moments with my crush

    Hi theres this girl in my public communication, which has a class of like 20 people. I want to talk to her but I couldn't get the opportunity. However, when the opportunity arrived, I messed up. It was just the two of us waiting for an elevator after class. I asked how she did do on the the exam (we got our test results back). She said that she got a 93 and then I laughed a little like a shy boy and i replied that i got a 92. Then I told her that I really liked her presentation and she just said "thank you" and that ended the conversation.

    The second time I met her it was when we were going on the same path and then I asked her if there was any homework for comm. she said there wasn't and then i asked her what her name was and we shook hands and we introduced ourselves. However, after that it was awkward and I awkwardly said bye to her.

    I know it was the man's job to continue the conversation and relate the presentation to me but I don't know why i didn't talked about it. I feel so humiliated and upset that I want to hit myself. Do you guys still feel that i have a chance? I think that she is a shy girl, but idk. I felt that my posture was alright,but I don't remember much because of the adrenaline. Thankfully, I have a reputation that I'm a funny guy in class, but i feel like a creep now.

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    I know it was the man's job to continue the conversation and relate the presentation to me but I don't know why i didn't talked about it. I feel so humiliated and upset that I want to hit myself. Do you guys still feel that i have a chance? I think that she is a shy girl, but idk. I felt that my posture was alright,but I don't remember much because of the adrenaline. Thankfully, I have a reputation that I'm a funny guy in class, but i feel like a creep now.

    look, the problem here is that you are tooo atracted to her, she is just another girl, and girls are an abundant renewable resource. your making a big deal out of talking to a girl who probably is just like any other girl. your letting her beauty scare you. beauty is common,personality is whats hard to find and should be highly sought after. you may be able to redeam yourself if you talk to her again with a good cocky/funny frame, but if you keep acting like she is a godess you won't stand a chance with her, my rule for repeat incounters is "three strikes and your deffinately friendzoned" if she hasn't already friendzoned you, then she will if you don't create ample attraction in her next time you talk to her

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    laughed like a shy boy? cmon man, ALPHA UP

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    This is awesome. It's like a teen movie. You are doing fine my friend. Chances are she may not have that much experience anyways. Just keep pushing your limits and getting out of your comfort zone. Don't worry about results. Worry about furthering yourself so you can learn something.
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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    ^Exactly.

    Just remember: she's great, but not that great. Girls are just like guys except without penises...and girls smell better...okay, we aren't that alike at all. My point is she's just a girl. Don't put her on a pedestal. Talk to her like you talk to anyone else.
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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    Thanks for your support guys. It really means a lot to me. I still feel that I have a slim chance but I will try my best. Also I meet her on tuesday for class. What do you guys think is the best approach. I was thinking of going there and asking how her weekend was and stuff like that. Probably lame approach but I got nothing better.

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    use a good camoflage opener, try something about the class, like "did you do that report that was due today, it took me like 4 hours to find all the imformation i needed to do it" stuff like this will work alot better than "how was your weekend" wich is a question you could ask after you had a convo going

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    If you're struggling on ways to open her up then I have a suggestion. This is one I use quite regularly when I run day/night game and can be applied in a classmate situation. What you need to do is pick a garment of clothing or an accessory that looks interesting (doesn't really have to, anything works). After that you walk up with confidence and ask "Hey, your jacket, it looks quite interesting, where did you get it from?"

    She will now proceed into saying where you got it from or she can't remember or asks why. In any situation, you DHV with saying "Ahhh, well I was just looking for a birthday present for my little cousin who's turning 15 in a couple of weeks and I want to find something really cool for her to buy but I'm not too sure, so I thought that because your jacket looked really cool I could get something similar for her. I mean even though she is my cousin, she's really special to me because she really loves animals and so do I and we would have long conversations on how to better ourselves on the treatment of animals on a global scale."

    You can carry on conversation by asking how she feels about animals (or something you're passion about) or make a date plan by asking if she wants to join you to help you find a present for her (you don't have to buy anything when you're out, you can easily say that you will think about it and come back another time to get it).

    Now you can interchange the cousin and animal bit with your own touch but I prefer to use it because it shows that:

    1. I'm a caretaker of loved ones, this is an alpha male trait that is highly attractive.

    2. You care alot about animals which shows you have a lot to offer as a man (and a lot of girls like animals too, in my experience that is).

    Keep the conversation light and flirty. Tease her now and then. Let it flow and you will be well on your way pal. Hope my advise helped
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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    Thanks to both meteora and themansohan for their wonderful advice, but unfortunately i didn't realize that you both replied to this thread so I couldn't use your advice. Anyways after class, she was walking behind me, texting, and I approached her. I asked what class she had right now, she said that she had econ. Since i took that class last semester, I told her that the teacher was good, but the exam was hard. I wished her good luck and somehow that ended the conversation. The reason I felt that the conversation ended was because I expected her to say something back. Like is the exam really that hard? what type of questions are there? Idk I just decided on giving up on that girl and hopefully someone will come. Thank you guys for trying to help me. I really appreciate it.

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    Default Re: awkward moments with my crush

    Though you've closed the door on her (seems like it)....might as well try a NEG or two here and there in the next couple of weeks...might spark some interest...nothing to be lost, all to be gained.


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