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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    It was out of nowhere but I think there is still a chance because of the the circumstances.

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    yeah i saw her and she was a bitch to me like i f*cking killed her dog. so I peaced out cut she messaged me.

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    Yeah I saw her at an event. She brushed me off and I was like alright but then I leave and all of a sudden I get a text out of nowhere on the way home.

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    Oh ok. My apologies for not being clear. Everything you say or do that you consider a technique you need a reason to do it. If she said something really arrogant, then that's the perfect time to use that line. Still though, it's not like she was just going to accept that and say "Omg you're right. I'm sorry." However, she didn't get defensive either. Just dismissive. I'd rather a woman be upset with me then dismissive. Still though...it was a hard push which is still good. Now you have to do something you may not like, to pull her back. What would be a strong pull in this situation? Drumroll......apolog ize.

    Yea I know what you're thinking. That it's beta and AFC. When actually it's not. Kissing her ass and seeking her approval IS beta. A real man can confidently say "Listen. It wasn't my intention to upset you. I just express myself without filter. It's who I am." Then you move onto another topic. Don't hang on it.

    It looks like you pushed harder than you thought. Who knew she would be so sensitive? Umm.....me lol. Although I misread the dismissive behavior versus the defensive. Whoops. Still good though, because with a huge push you can do a huge pull like apologize. Simply state that it wasn't your intention then move on. This is the whole emotional rollercoaster because then you can do something else she sees as asshole behavior (push) then reel her back in with a compliment (pull). Keep the apologies scarce and earnable. (If that's a word.) This is the essence of push/pull. To put her on an emotional rollercoaster.

    Summary: Within the next day or two text her with something that you had to share with her. "Wow I can't believe that just happened." Act like nothing happened. If she doesn't respond within the time she normally would then proceed with the apology. Make her laugh "It wasn't my intention to upset you. I express myself without filter. It's a curse. But you're still my monkey butt!! Yes I just gave you a nickname. Hope you like it." If she tries to keep feeding it and trying to make it worse then make it sound like she is being a drama queen and tell her "One apology is all your getting hun."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    Thanks man. I agree. I think there is still a great chance cause I'm getting a rise from her. It was surprising because she got so bent out of shape seeing me and acting the way she did but it is still a rise and her "not caring". Honestly when I saw her tonight and the way she treated me I was like "it is over", but then 15 mins later I get this text, so game is still on.

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    Sure. Hope it works out. Be sure to leave an update.
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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    Yeah a little more background now that I'm a little more sober. Saw her and her friend at this event and she didn't say more than two words to me and her friend is like this is so and so the asshole. She actually hardly looked at me when I tried to make contact with her. That's where I was like alright peace out. 30 mins later she probably didn't pickup another guy and then I get the text message ("WTF!"). Which lead to me challenging her. She is used to every guy pandering to her and it probably blew her out of the water that someone said that. I think I'm in a great place cause she's mad. I just need to send the right text now to move it back to my favor.

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    " Listen. It wasn't my intention to upset you and I'm sorry if it did. When someone treats me bad I just express myself without a filter…like someone else I know. It's a curse. But your still my 49er princess!!! "

    I know this might be way overboard and total AFC but I could go to her apartment and wait for her to leave cause I know she has dance practice today and give me a flower while apologizing or even have a few delivered to her office tomorrow?

    thoughts on my text and/or idea?

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    Latest update her response from this morning:

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    Wow I can't believe that happened to us

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    I can. You said it best yourself: in school guys that like you tease you. We're not in school. I'm not interested in being in 6th grade again. If that makes me overly serious and arrogant in your eyes, clearly it's not going to work. Because yesterday you were just acting like a completely immature jerk and somehow expecting me to think it was funny. Sorry, but even drunk me wasn't amused.

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    Default Re: Txt advice really needed

    It sounds like she "wants something to work". I would give her a couple days to think about it, then text her back with something funny. She's got a chip on her shoulder, and breaking her down and letting her know who is the man is the right move.


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