Re: Txt advice really needed
Yea that was a pretty bad exchange, but I think you still have a good chance. I LOVE the smart ones. They are all logic and their thoughts are built brick for brick. So it's very easy to confuse them with mixed signals since they really try to make sense of them, which further invests them into you the more they judge you. Juggler says that every judgement is a committment. So you WANT her to judge you on all the mixed signals you are going to give her.
The last message, "You have a really interesting mix of feistiness, sweetness and an almost businesslike honesty. Quite something" was good. However, it just feels like it was coming from a place of weakness rather than power.
Do not be intimidated by her intelligence or that she is a 9. Like I said there is something giddly easy about the intelligent ones. I want you to focus on ALL push/pull and qualification mixed together. Say things like "You are so unique in your intelligence, but is overshadowed with your arrogance." She will most likely get defensive, but WHO CARES!! She will still likely feel the stab of that statement and after a few more of those will start the seek your validation. Push pull back and forth like an accordian. The more you push then pull the more tension will build up til it explodes and she jumps your bones.
Use push/pull with your body to. Tell her "Hey let me call you right back. Something came up that I have to handle" (words). If she asks what, tell her "Ok now you're getting too personal." Then do not call her for several hours or even until the next day (body). When you call back say "Wow that took longer than I thought. Sorry about that. Now tell me exactly what you said you were going to do to me?" (obviously she didn't say anything of the sort lol. But it will get a laugh)
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."