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    xultima is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I Be Masking Success

    As a person I naturally play up strengths and downplay weaknesses. It's a valuable skill in the workplace, but in the dating world I feel that there are boundaries.

    I'm about to graduate from a well respected University. My current internship with an f500 firm is converting into a full time position as a senior analyst with decent hours and pay ranging between 65-110 depending on how much overtime I decide to put in. I literally wrote my own job description, I'm doing what I want to do.

    How do I NOT talk about this? I don't want that to be a defining characteristic. I still like women, but at the same time I enjoy maximizing my savings rate and avoiding gold diggers.

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    Virgil is offline Moderator / PUA All Star
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    Default Re: Masking Success

    Just don't mention it. When she asks about your job, say what you do and why you like to do it. If she asks about what you make, just tell her you don't want to tell her because that's something private.

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    meteora is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: Should I Be Masking Success

    if she asks you what your job is give her a silly response, like "i'm a proffesional thumb wrestler" or if you do tell her what your job is, talk about what makes your job interesting, if she asks how much you make tell her its a charity or something silly like that in order to dodge the question, don't get deffensive about how much you make, just don't tell it to her


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