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    Default Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Ok so there is girl on my campus she is also part of the military Academy so she stays pretty busy.
    She gives IOI 's and I do initiate plenty of Kino which is well received by her. Problem is she is stubborn and stuck in this 'bubble' that she can't have 'fun' . She told me on the weekends she has so much time to kill (plus she dated one guy but now no more dating cause in her past people broke her trust). I suggested we hang out on the weekends and she said Ok. My question for the experts how do I get her to open up (I know I will have to build Rapport so she gains my trust and figures me out).

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    if you want her to open up, you need to gain her trust (building report will help alot) the best way to get her to trust you, is to trust her with a secret (preferably a small one) if she tells it to anyone, then she's the one who has broken your trust, make her earn it back. the fact that you trust her will be an ioi from you, and if she trusts you with a secret or to do something for her don't break that trust. any time she trusts you, take it as an ioi. she sounds like she's been hurting from some deep emotional pain, so make sure you don't inflict any more upon her. if you are just lookin for a one night stand, this isn't the girl for that

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Im very apprehensive about this I think I have built enough face to face Rapport with her and have shown her Im pretty relaxed. This one is a challenge and I have to be careful but playful negs go a looonng way with her so Im definitely using that Do you think adding her on Facebook is a good idea I dont know Im actually hesitant for some reason ...I know Facebook is yet another tool for building Rapport..



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    P.S A Small Field Report maybe this might give more insight

    Visited her last weekend she actually called me over to help her out on school , so I did she was relaxed I still sense resistance from her in the sense of having lunch since there was a time available in her strict and unexpected schedule during the day. On the weekends she is more relaxed(go figure) and weekdays heavy stress from workload. Im trying to include her friends to hang out so the transition is easier maybe I should wait for a event or something.

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    adding her on facebook is perfectly fine, if she gave you her phone number she should be willing to give her facebook keep building report and keep your relationship alive, eventualy she will see that you are committed to her and that should lower her resistance. btw are you guys dating yet? (are just trying to get some or are you actualy dating her?) more background imfo would deffinately help me help you

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Don't build rapport too early but yeah I like meteorasidea about the secret
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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Metora no we are not dating yet... It's a sensitive situation she wants to show feelings but I think she doesn't want to get hurt again like she has a deep wound internally. She does take negs beautifully though so she has some playfulness well alive. I have to just spill a secret I guess to build trust and she has shown me her Facebook before so I don't think it would be too much to add her

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Yeah I would add her, tell her a secret, a small one but make it sound like its a big one. Keep doing what your doing and maybe for your date, go out during the day, she will Bennie comfortable and less likely to have any shields.Maybe try an outdoor date doing something she does a lot, anything to make her more comfortable
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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    you should deffinately take her on a date like dalton said, you need to give her some ioi's so she knows you like her too, if you've already got her attracted to you, then the next step is to get her to try to win your attraction, be a challenge, but don't be to challenging (i know it sounds kinda paradoxial) when on your date focus on keeping that attraction alive and don't escalate too much, a little kino could do wonders, but too much could ruin it have a nice date!!

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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    I agree, and the best way to do that is the push pull method.
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    Default Re: Need Expert Advice from Experts on this girl very interesting

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    if you want her to open up, you need to gain her trust (building report will help alot) the best way to get her to trust you, is to trust her with a secret (preferably a small one) if she tells it to anyone, then she's the one who has broken your trust, make her earn it back. the fact that you trust her will be an ioi from you, and if she trusts you with a secret or to do something for her don't break that trust. any time she trusts you, take it as an ioi. she sounds like she's been hurting from some deep emotional pain, so make sure you don't inflict any more upon her. if you are just lookin for a one night stand, this isn't the girl for that
    This...is the most brilliant thing!! Good heavens i was randomly searching for building trust things, and WHAM...[i know i'm off grid here a bit...but couldn't resist...!!]


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