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Thread: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

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    Default Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    Hey everyone, just a little background of me...

    I am 19 years old, sophomore in college...never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, virgin...

    So I just feel really frustrated and I am guessing sexually, I always hear about my friends banging some chick last night and there I am still laying in bed by myself...

    I dont get it! Why whenever I meet a hot girl she likes my friend better or I am "just her friend." I am trying to be an a**hole but it doesnt really work, why does every girl see me as a friend? I just want to get laid...lol, i know im laughing but i am serious i just need to.

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    You have a whole lot of things to learn. But your still young you have loads of time

    Read Neil Strauss's "The Game" and go from there.

    Some of the methods are outdated now but in my opinion is the best "Welcome to Pick up" book there is.

    It's available to download free on the internet, please consider donating to Style Life if you download it and liked it

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    quite making it such a big deal to lose your virginity, your sounding terribly desperate, and girls can see that. it is a major dlv. work on trying to create attraction in the wemon you talk to, before you even think about having sex with them. girls can see that your viewing them like they are peices of meat, and they don't like being pictured as t-bone steak

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    Quote Originally Posted by valentineover View Post
    You have a whole lot of things to learn. But your still young you have loads of time

    Read Neil Strauss's "The Game" and go from there.

    Some of the methods are outdated now but in my opinion is the best "Welcome to Pick up" book there is.

    It's available to download free on the internet, please consider donating to Style Life if you download it and liked it
    already got it and read it my friend, he makes it seem so easy though...lol

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    quite making it such a big deal to lose your virginity, your sounding terribly desperate, and girls can see that. it is a major dlv. work on trying to create attraction in the wemon you talk to, before you even think about having sex with them. girls can see that your viewing them like they are peices of meat, and they don't like being pictured as t-bone steak
    yeah i guess i get what your saying but i dont seem desperate to the girls, if anything im afraid to make a move...cause im scared/nervous of getting denied. im thirsty but i dont think i show it...

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    If you 'are afraid of being rejected', then you will be displaying low confidence via your body language both physically and subconsciously. Women are able to pick up on both of them, which is why you might not be having much luck.

    Read up on body language and observe people when you are out, such as your friends and the women they are successful with. Then try to notice your own too and change it to display more Alpha characteristics.

    As the others say, you are young! You have loads of time to master the art!!

    Enjoy the journey my friend
    "Named must your fear be before banish it you can."

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    there s a thread on here called the newbie guide read it plus read all of the following guy's threads and posts:
    -xavier (me)
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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    Hey guys, idk why but i always keep falling in the friend zone! Its so annoying and idk what im doing wrong? Is it that i dont make a move?

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    if you are falling in the friend zone, it is usualy caused by not creating enough attraction, or by not taking the initiative, when you don't make your move,(wich the wemon expect you to do) you will seem weak and unconfident what you need is experience, eventualy you will learn exactly when to make your move,and to watch for ioi's so you can have perfect moment to strike

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    Also don't a bitch for the girls. By this I mean talk to them and everything but don't do everything for them and spend all your time with them or asking them to go places. It was my biggest mistake in life... I lost my v-plates at 19... a week after I learnt that.

    You don't have to be an asshole, but you do need to display that you don't NEED to be with them. Just be a bit more casual.

    Lastly, for the love of god escalate! you need to let a girl know you like her.

    If you take one thing from this message its this sentence

    "Let her Know that you like her without actually letting her know you like her"

    in other words, she should be wondering, does he like me? i think he does?

    hope it helps

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    Default Re: Sexually Frustrated 19 yr old. Help?

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post

    Lastly, for the love of god escalate! you need to let a girl know you like her.

    If you take one thing from this message its this sentence

    "Let her Know that you like her without actually letting her know you like her"

    in other words, she should be wondering, does he like me? i think he does?

    hope it helps
    how do i do this part?! how do i let her know?


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