so yeah, that's basicly my whole question. Just recently a "girl" friend of mine broke up with her ex, and she needed someone to talk to. Now, I like her. So I said sure. Before, I always acted like a sarcastic ass hole to her. So to speak, and she found it funny. So I kept it on. Now, since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she needed someone to talk too. So I showed her my nice side. She didn't know I had it, and she said she weirldy like this side of me. So, now I'm on the point on where I can be out of the friend-zone, and be the fall-back guy. That's where I need help. Is it better to be friend-zoned or the fall back guy?