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    blueshell99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What does it mean if she texts first but doesn't respond back?

    this girl has been attracted to me since last semester. I didn't give her the time of the day last semester to even exchange numbers or hang out or anything even though I would see her in the gym all the time shooting hoops. I didnt give her the time because all the guys in my cultural community were on her like no other. there were rumors that she was unofficially official with some random dude and a lot of other ish. She has guys all over her anywhere she goes. she told my friend that even though she doesn't know me that well she thinks i am one of the most attractive guys in the school. this is last semester. then i met her at a party and something awkward happened when we were drunk and i didn't talk to her till after the summer when this semester started.

    well i got her number like 2 weeks ago and we hung out once last week, we went to go workout at the gym. she asked if i could be her trainer, i said yea.

    now everyone in my school is at this other large city for a football game weekend and are all bar hopping. i am stuck studying for a fluid dynamics test. so last night she texts me saying "hi" i reply saying hey and she doesn't reply.


    she texted me around the time when people are done pre gaming. so she mightve been a little bit buzzed. she still hasnt replied.

    i know for a fact she saw my message as soon as she got it just because of how she is.

    what does this mean?

    what are my next moves?

    i plan on not even mentioning the text to her when i see her on campus.

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    Default Re: What does it mean if she texts first but doesn't respond back?

    Quote Originally Posted by blueshell99 View Post

    i plan on not even mentioning the text to her when i see her on campus.
    Good ^ cuz it's no big deal

    Basically you need to be more stimulating when you text, neg her, get cocky/funny on her, have some emotional value to what she says.

    Her: "hey"
    You: "oh no! Are you one of THOSE girls who thinks a greering is a conversation starter? Tell you what, Snow White I got a grammar book at home. Ill show you how it works "

    Or somethin
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    coolbreeze is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What does it mean if she texts first but doesn't respond back?

    Well first off, you need to define your goals for what you want with this girl (hook up, one night stand, f-buddies, girlfriend). That dictates where you should go and how much you should be willing to invest in this girl (time, emotions, money, etc). Second, dont read too much into the fact she didnt respond. She may have been drunk or caught up with going to the football game, but ultimately there are too many reasons for her not responding that you shouldnt get caught up on. Lastly, remember that if she is attracted to you, then you're the prize to be won, not her.

    As I said before, define what you want with this girl. If you want her to be your girlfriend, dont let too much time pass between your text and your next contact because you dont want it to seem like youre mad about it. Find some excuse to text her, but dont send something like "Hey, hows your day". Send her something that sounds like it could be a mass text or facebook update. Read some of the other material posted about how to initiate texts without seeming needy. But just remember to use texting sparingly to set up a time where you guys can hang out and initiate the rapport and emotional building stuff face to face.


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