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Thread: cant keep an erection with girl i am dating, please help

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    Default cant keep an erection with girl i am dating, please help

    Hi guys so i started dating this girl and we were going to hook up for the first time. I got it up but i couldnt keep it up it happened twice. Idk whats wrong with me. Her mom sister and brother was home and i was super nervous. How do I overcome this. I saw her tonight and she was teasing me about it but just as a joke but that is a sensitive topic for me and it hurt my feelings. Now im afraid to try again with her thinking it might happen again.

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    Default Re: cant keep an erection please help

    Was alcohol part of the equation? With certain condoms, you can get alot less sensation, too. If you know her well enough and if she's on the pill, then talk her into no condom. Just my opinion, though, and I'm not sure how responsible this advice is. (I have had success going round 2 with no condom, so I'd try it that way).

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    Default Re: cant keep an erection please help

    Condoms could be an issues. But I think there's validity with the nervousness. If you think about it, it goes back to our ancestors.

    Scientists have proven that males are more aware of their environment during sex so if there was danger the men were able to stop sex and protect their women. Fact.

    So it's no surprise your nervousness to "danger" made you unable to get an erection.
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    Default Re: cant keep an erection please help

    Thanks guys, No she isnt on the pill she stopped it after she stopped dating anyone. She said that it screws up her hormones and what not. I would prefer her to be on it though. Once i put that condom on i start to lose my erection. Also how do i get over this nervousness and just relax? Now in the back of my mind im wondering if it will happen again.

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    Default Re: cant keep an erection please help

    The ONLY issue here is that you were uncomfortable with other people being in the house. Wait until you have the place completely to yourself, and you will rise to the occasion like Hercules.

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    she just broke up with with because of it im so embarrassed and feel like shit.

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    Default Re: cant keep an erection please help

    Oy i feel u man... its a tough situation to deal with.

    Next time if u feel uncomfortable, just make out with her. You dont have to escalate if u are still nervous about this particular time it happened. Take it slow... that usually helps you stay in the mood. Taking your time can help clear your head. But commit to yourself that you will only go so far in a situation that could lead to u not performing well (ex. A public place). Also, was she trying to HELP by stimulating you??? I mean, if she saw you couldnt, did she try other ways to keep your friend interested or did she just laugh and leave it at that? Maybe she is just a jerk ( proved it by breaking up with you).

    But maybe i'm not a good person to give advice on this... i usually have the opposite problem... a situation like that (with the parents home) is usually a huge turn on for me lol! Its like, "ok honey ... now scream directly into the pillow" lol!
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