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Thread: I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

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    Default I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

    i'm sorry for the negativity but I'm in a bad place right now. I don't get a chance to practice game regularly so that's probably why i'm not improving. I did dabble with some day-game practice but girls just look at me like i'm a threat to them and they get creeped out by me, very rarely will I get a girl to commit to a conversation with me for longer than 30 seconds they wanna get rid of me. I'm turning 20 this october and i'm still a virgin. I've only been kissed once, and me and the girl we're both so drunk none of us remember most of what happend that night. I feel like a loser but everyday I try to walk with my chest out and I use this inner game technique of telling myself that i'm a knockout with the girls, but at the end of the day i'm just a wannabe pimp. I have a goal to become a man who has sex with different women every week, a ladies man. I want the ability to seduce any girl at any time, but that takes practice and my pride and self-respect goes down the drain with every day that goes by and i'm still a pathetic virgin, I don't even know where to go from here........

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    Default Re: I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

    I feel for you man; i'm also 20, and even more embarrassing, i'm in college. If you haven't lost your virginity by 20, and you've been trying, it essentially boils down to the fact that you have a lame, boring personality, you have serious social anxiety, you have some physical abnormality, or you're creepy as hell. I personally suffer from lame, boring boring personality, but at least it, along with the other problems, are fixable with thorough self reflection, or plastic surgery. Anyways, I feel exactly like you: pathetic, and inferior to 95% of males. You can't let it show though, otherwise your depressive symptoms will snowball because women will be turned off by your self pity, which will in turn make you more depressed. I lost my self respect and pride years ago, but it doesn't matter because in the scope of things, self respect and pride are just useless feelings that you should be able to get over. The only solution is to suck it up, and keep trying, because over the course of a lifetime, you have a statistically good chance of getting laid. If you feel you can't deal with depressive symptoms, get a shrink and some anti depressants.

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    Default Re: I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

    You're setting your goals too high. No one gets good at this overnight. Set smaller goals. Such as getting a woman to laugh. Then getting her to touch you. Then move onto getting her to give you the phone number. Don't even worry about kissing, let alone sex, for now.

    How do you know they want to get rid of you?

    The best practicing grounds are bars and nightclubs. Try those before going to day game.
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    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." - Tyler Durden
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    Default Re: I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

    you're right, feeling sorry isn't gonna help me, the weird thing is: i have a great personality when i'm with friends and family, I tend to make people laugh and i do enjoy life, i just get depressed from time to time because i know that as much fun as I have with friends, i can have a better quality of life if i can just be sure of myself with girls. It's true what they say clowns don't get the girl. i'm also tired of everyone else getting girls attracted to them I want my moment, my turn to come around, I know the tools but it's applying them that's difficult.

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    Default Re: I need help with morale, I feel like i'm living a lie

    Learn to apply the tools little by little. Like BatMan said, set small goals. Try learning to open girls and move on further. Night game is much easier than day game, so start there. If that's too difficult, just practice little things with friends you already have. Learn about body language. Use the knowledge to improve yours and to detect others'. Read people's body language daily. Read it on your friends. Use your humor to your advantage; be cocky funny with girls. Tease and neg them. Think of them as friends, not strangers. Actually, practice with your friends. Open up more with girl friends you already have. Use kino escalation on them. Get used to touching girls more and escalating. Practicing on friends really works, I do it all the time and they don't need to know about what you are doing or why. Improve other areas of your life to help build your confidence. Take it step by step. Don't expect a massive change in one day.


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