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Thread: Going with direct game... Come off as desperate?

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    Default Going with direct game... Come off as desperate?

    Hi y'all,

    So from what I understand direct game is a good technique for daygame because bitch shields are down and they aren't expecting to be approached. But I have been reading threads about how you should neg and she should qualify to you, instead of the other way around. To put it into better words, you shouldn't look desperate or show too much interest at first. So my question is, when you go direct, doesn't that come across as looking too desperate or as you qualifying to her in a way, insteaf of the other way around? If anyone could clarify this for me that would great.

    Thanks for the help and keep the advice coming!

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    Default Re: Going with direct game... Come off as desperate?

    No. Reason its called direct is because you go in for the kill. You dont ask her "Can I, Will you, etc." Thats begging. You state "Lets, You should, I think it would be". That shows you are interested and you know what you want and you are confident enough. Big difference.

    Take for instance a job interview. You go in a job interview instinctively knowing that you have another job interview lined up so if the job interview that you are currently being interviewed doesnt work out you dont care. So you approach with confidence by stating your skills and telling them you are the best candidate and they need to pick you. Well not directly but indirectly.

    You have to view when you talking to women as if you dont care. Is like sales. A sale person calls your house do not care if they are bothering you they are trying to sell a product. If you like the offer/commercial you buy it if not you move on.

    Remember you are not begging you have other women lined up ready to meet you they just dont know it yet.

    Quote Originally Posted by Chewbacca View Post
    Hi y'all,

    So from what I understand direct game is a good technique for daygame because bitch shields are down and they aren't expecting to be approached. But I have been reading threads about how you should neg and she should qualify to you, instead of the other way around. To put it into better words, you shouldn't look desperate or show too much interest at first. So my question is, when you go direct, doesn't that come across as looking too desperate or as you qualifying to her in a way, insteaf of the other way around? If anyone could clarify this for me that would great.

    Thanks for the help and keep the advice coming!
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    Default Re: Going with direct game... Come off as desperate?

    I like TopGunningIt's analogy - it's exactly like that. If you notice in any of Sasha Daygame's videos he always shows initoal interest once (only once) then negs/disqualifies the girl like "hey, you caught my eye because your beauty is up to my standards, lets see if your personality is up to my standards as well. I've got many options, wow me."
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    Default Re: Going with direct game... Come off as desperate?

    Hey thanks for clarification topgunningit and autismus! Really appreciate it. Autismus, you answer all my questions man. It feels like your are my personal pua trainer! Lol. Thanks for the help and keep it up you guys.


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