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    Shogun is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Still can't figure out this girl, need to be sure, help!

    Okay, so this is a follow up to a post I made a couple week back regarding a girl I just met through a friend. From the off she was chatty to me over others, touched me frequently and leaned against me/ whispered to me throughout lectures. I went for drinks with her and some others, and following advice from te Red Baron through some disqualifiers out and got some banter that progressed into rapport and as we got a little drunk she was holding my hand/sitting on my lap and getting me to kiss her on the cheek but I had to leave the night early and so left everyone else to it. The next night out. I was told she waited by the cloakrooms for me to get in the club before going to get herself a drink or find anyone else. We've since hung out at my house alone twice in the last 5 days, and she's opened up a lot, and talked a lot about sex which just seemed to create quite a tension due to what she was saying, eg: a guy never made her come, she has a high sex drive etc. this gets to the point where we're both giggling awkwardly, and I feel like I should just grab her and kiss her, the only things stopping me are a) she's now in my friend circle, so if I've read this wrong it'd be kinda embarrassing, and b) she doesn't really text, like she'll text if we're meeting up etc, but if we're texting and I send something that's open but not a q, she doesn't respond. All the other signs are there, smiling, eye contact, kino, rapport, compliments etc but I can't figure out whether I should just go for it, she's coming to my houseparty on the weekend so I need to figure this out, any advice guys?

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    Default Re: Still can't figure out this girl, need to be sure, help!

    Thanks for the shout out, if you're not sure you can either 1- go for the mystery kiss close and ask them if they want to kiss you (if they say no, you respond - well I didn't say you could, or tease them)

    Or 2, work on building up kino, if she's receptive to the kino, go for it
    (you actually want kino regardless)

    I talk about both kiss closes in this old field report here if you're curious, it's toward the end
    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...t-tropics.html

    I also had a post about building kino here, read it for sure
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post63332

    I like kino because it easily leads to the kiss, but of you can't read their reactions as well, mystery's kiss close is great, it allows you an easy out if they say no that won't really risk messing up your relationship
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Shogun is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Still can't figure out this girl, need to be sure, help!

    Thanks again bro, I'm gonna pull out all the stops this weekend, hopefully I'll have something positive to report back...


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