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    Erixzon is offline PUA in Training
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    Default meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    hey boys! so the 26th of october there is a party comming up. i will celebrate my birthday at this party and the host is a good friend of mine, and he said he could tell to the people that they party for my birthday or whatsoever( really good for DHV and social proof isnt it ? ) however 2 girls i have my eyes on pretty much will come, 1 is HB9 and the other HB. so the party host told me to back off from the HB9 cause he had dibs on her! and she recently got single from long time relationship so i was like yeah okay, how about this HB8 u know anyone that has his eyes on her to? he was like, yeah the whole school lol.

    HOWEVER, im gonna get this girl! gonna go in and do my very best so from the story to the facts


    i dont know this girl havent spoken to her irl,
    i do however texted with her ABIT not much at all.
    she know who i am and she is facebook friend and she likes my photo, been single for a long time and good friend with the party host and couple of other friends of mine


    okay to the obstacles, apperently many guys gonna try to flirt with her, i think i already know at least 1 guy thats gonna try, she doesnt seem THAT intresed but genuine.


    so what to do really,
    i need good first impression on her, i need to " crush my opponents" i need to look alpha and " be the man " focus on the guys in her group at first just talk to them abit ask whats up and all small talking, say hello to the girls small talk real short, then make that false time thing, when i say kind like "i think somebody yelled my name i'll be back soon btw whats ur name?" kinda thing DHV ( because of HB 9 & HB8 ). take a seat relax lean back take alot of space talk with body language, ignore them for a while talk to some other girls ( small talk ) go back and rejoin them focus talk on targets friend for abit and just " fuel the flame" then joke with the target mabye a neg, kino abit mabye the push and pull technique! isolate number close or k- close whatever suits the moment!

    So i want your guys suggestions and thoughts about this! how would you do? why? and how? thanks for all feed back! see you around!

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    Default Re: meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    I think you're in a really great position seeing as you know the host and it's your birthday celebration. If you have him or someone you know introduce you two - even if you know each other already - and mention that it's your birthday, that's already a good segue into whatever routines you're most comfortable with. Personally, I'd peacock the sh!t out of this and wear a shirt that says "kiss me, I'm the birthday boy" or something like that.

    Secondly, use your birthday to AMOG and "crush your opponents" lol. If anyone's being a real d1ck to you, that's a DLV on their part because they look like a tool for farking with YOUR celebration. Also, you pretty much reserve the right to walk up to anyone you want all night and yell "birthday shots!!!" and they can't exactly say no. If they do, they look like a pussy. If they say yes, you're in a position of authority. Just try not to get too farked up doing this!

    Thirdly, if your actual birthday is the day AFTER the party, you can use midnight as a means of pumping people up. If the host makes everyone sing you "happy birthday" or something equally cheesy, even the people who you don't know at the party will want to be around you or meet you. This way you can DHV through social dominance to the HB8.

    Good luck and happy birthday dude!!

    ***by the way, I'm not an expert - I just joined so take my words with a grain of salt. That said, I don't think I gave you any outright bad advice. Correct me, anyone, if I'm steering him in the wrong direction!
    Last edited by Tom Selleck; 10-16-2012 at 10:48 AM. Reason: Didn't want to double post

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    Default Re: meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    Sounds god for my ears! Prob is i dont rly have a shirt sayin that bit it Was an awesome idea! Secondairly i like the all birthday talk but mabye they will think its to much like i brag about it, but still nice thoughts! Thanks alot! @tom selleck

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    Default Re: meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    No problem man, glad to be of help - in regards to the shirt thing, if you have a solid color or white t-shirt you don't really care about, I'd go ahead and just write on one in sharpie or something. In terms of the birthday thing being too much, I wouldn't say so. Assuming everyone's partying and having a great time, as long as you don't bring it up in EVERY conversation but instead, just for example, make a thing out of doing a "birthday shot" every hour on the hour, I think a lot of people would get really into it and it'd be a nice little reminder that you're the alpha of the night!


    Cheers man.

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    Default Re: meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    Btw man, doe you have any thoughts until next weekend? Should i text with her, / try to avoid her in school so i do t have to say hello i her yet? Would be nice, thank you again!

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    Default Re: meeting girl on the weekend @ party! need thoughst and suggestions

    My advice would be don't text her, but don't avoid her either. Just be natural dude! If you see her, just be casual and do what you'd normally do. It sounds like under normal circumstances you wouldn't engage her in conversation regularly, so a polite "hey what's up" should be just fine if you run into her. If I were you, if I ran into her, I'd drop some info about the party in a non-interested manner - something like, "hey, did you hear about ____'s party next weekend? it's supposed to be sick, you should come!" and leave it at that. If she says anything in terms of why she can't come, or isn't planning to, don't push it - at most, say something like "that's too bad, it'll be a great time." If she's planning on not going, there won't be a whole lot you can do to convince her to change her mind. Conversely, if she says something about how she IS going, just play it cool and say "cool, see you there!" or something along those lines. No reason to act unlike yourself!

    Anyway, I wouldn't stress it. It sounds like you guys don't talk too much anyway outside texting, and you don't want to push it too hard, so I'd just lay low for the time being and pull out all the alpha you've got at the party, just to surprise her and sweep her off her feet.


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