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  1. #1
    steve_f is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I think I can scape LJBF solid advice needed guys

    Short version>>>>>>>

    met her a while back, kissed her on 3rd date, then she ignored me for a while. then said shes not a relationship type of girl and that we should just be friends.

    I break contact for a few months.. then at mutual friends party i bring two girls that im gaming with me..to make her jealous. she sees me and and she acts like im a stranger i treat her like an old friend but we barely talked that night.

    2 days after she texts me asking if my friends got home safe.. i know this is just an excuse to text me... i reply with " yes they both got home safe"
    a week goes by..

    then i asked her for coffee to "work on our friendship" she agreed and we had a great time catching up. i did some nlp charged stories to make her a bit horny .. i think it worked.. she was very enthusiastic unlike last the last time i saw her now she's making excuses to txt me and asking random stuff..

    ideally you would get her to your place and fclose her then you would have the power right?.. here's the problem: i dont have a place.. she doesn't have a place anymore ( moved back with parents)

    my plan so far is: asking her to dinner do more nlp , increase kino then later that day ..ride rented bikes at the park .. get her to a bench and escalate to kiss.

    Question: now that i got her a bit attracted what do i do?
    any suggestions ? how can i get her to invest more so that its not just me doing the chasing this time.

    thank you for your time everyone.



    Long version>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>


    I met her through a mutual friend we txed for a few months.. yes I know too slow i was complete a afc at the time..
    anyway.. so i asked her to hung out, had a great time no kiss i just did some kino.
    Then on the third date, the place we were going to was closed, so i suggested we just hangout at her house..
    good set up so far right?
    so we're watching a film, she's in my arms, we're playing with our hands under a cover.. at the time i did not know how to take things further and my thinking was that if i tried to go further she will think i just want her for her body.. so i leaned in and briefly kissed her , she seemed to be into it. Then a bit later I left her house.

    next day i text her all sort of needy stuff..
    i asked to hung out she's.. busy.. week goes by i asked her again.. " shes got stuff to do , maybe next week"
    following week i asked her again shes busy..

    so i text her saying that if she doesnt want to see me anymore that she should tell me
    she texts back.
    'we will meet next week and talk.'

    so we met up and went for coffee
    after some fluf talk i asked her if she still wanted to hang out or if we should just leave it there. (i know bad to give ultimatums.. i had to learn the hard way i guess)
    she said ' she's not a relation ship type of girl but she does want to get to know me' i said ok ...
    later that day we went to the cinema.. i held her hand.
    and on the way out she said that it felt weird and we should just be friends..

    I break contact for a few months..
    then a mutual friends party happened so i know shes gonna be there so i bring two girls that im gaming with me..to make her jealous. she sees me and and she acts like im a stranger i treat her like an old friend but we barely talked that night.

    I break contact for a few months..
    then a mutual friends party happened so i know shes gonna be there so i bring two girls that im gaming with me..to make her jealous. she sees me and and she acts like im a stranger i treat her like an old friend but we barely talked that night.

    2 days after she texts me asking if my friends got home safe.. i know this is just an excuse to text me... i reply with " yes they both got home safe"
    a week goes by..

    then i asked her for coffee to "work on our friendship" she agreed and we had a great time catching up. i did some nlp charged stories to make her a bit horny .. i think it worked.. she was very enthusiastic unlike last the last time i saw her now she's making excuses to txt me and asking random stuff..

    ideally you would get her to your place and fclose her then you would have the power right?.. here's the problem: i dont have a place.. she doesn't have a place anymore ( moved back with parents)

    my plan so far is: asking her to dinner do more nlp , increase kino then later that day ..ride rented bikes at the park .. get her to a bench and escalate to kiss.

    Question: now that i got her a bit attracted what do i do?
    any suggestions ? how can i get her to invest more so that its not just me doing the chasing this time.



    thank you for your time everyone.

  2. #2
    Gnarfskt is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I think I can scape LJBF solid advice needed guys

    So I guess you also live by your parents? Either way, there are plenty of good places to make your moves as you already have figured =)

    Your plan seems good, but it would of course be an advantage if she contacted you again now that some time has pasted. IŽd say stay cool for another week and see if she contacts you again, then the goal is open. If she doesn't stick to your plan.

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    steve_f is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I think I can scape LJBF solid advice needed guys

    yes ill wait for a week and see if she contacts. thanks

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    Mind Tricks is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I think I can scape LJBF solid advice needed guys

    then i asked her for coffee to "work on our friendship" - Lol I had a big laugh when you said that


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