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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    Hahaha no doubt Bro. I knew it would happen
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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    Like it was mentioned bro what you talk about really doesnt matter much. If you are that into your head then yeah you'll have issues.

    Look at this example. If you go to say chillis on a friday night, at the bar you will always see a cpl on a first date just sitting there and looking miserable. The girl is texting and the dude looks butt hurt. Chances are by the time they got there he has already places soooo much expectations and hopes in the whole thing to the point he will either cone out try hard, or not have anything to say because he is so worried about the material.

    Now, you will also see a cpl that is just having a blast. Thats because the dude just doesnt care about a damn thing other than just having fun. I normally do stupid shit on a first date. Shoot I have played patty cake with girls and they love it , specailly when I tease and tell them they are doing it wrong. That, hot hands or thumb wars.

    I have noticed this and normally the girl in the crappy date is starting at us.

    What Im getting at is this. DONT GIVE A FUCK. Just go out and gave fun bro. Watch your body lingo and dont say/do shit thats gonna get you arrested but other than that, its your world and you are just inviting them in it.

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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    Totally agree mate, every girl I go on a date with always tells me I'm wierd....standard reply 'come on, if I was normal life wouldn't be any fun' they always agree with me, just make sure they are having fun and u'll be fine

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    Yeah, it should come natural, the more comfortable you look, the more comfortable they will be
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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    True story.

    One thing I have done is flat out tell women that they arent getting laid with me that night so dont try and pull a fast one on me. 95% F close rate with that mentality on my many first dates. At least a kiss close. Once almost got raped in my car by one. Why? Because I just simply did not care and removed all pressure off of me.
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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    I've read all these, some good stuff in here. Lately I've been trying to step up my game a bit, and that's why I'm back. I want to correct my sticking point.

    In the last month I have had 3 or 4 women texting dirty things with me and what not, but what I have noticed is that it is hard to get me to get girls to actually commit. I have some decent text game, and at moments when I get them to commit to actually hanging out with me they always tend to flake on me, but really its not that they don't want to see me, it just seems like I have not built enough attraction for them to make time for me. Does it work better to call rather than text to ask them out, even if that is the normal means by which we communicate?

    Now if I'm not really interested in a woman, I'm just fine texting with her when we are bored and being her validation and making her feel good. That's what I'm about. She will like me more, and even if we don't do anything, she is still a pivot for me to enter into her social circle, which has gotten me laid more than once.

    Any more info and I think i'll being going beyond the scope of this thread, which to me is to identify my sticking points that are currently effecting me (which is now building attraction and keeping rapport I believe) and work on those to improve. Of course I have other things I've been working on like improving fitness (I'm down from 320 last year to about 250-60) and fashion/style.

    Now that all the serious stuff is out of the way, lets go internet nerd. I haz funneh storeh. Girl comes over to chill last night....we chat my friend leaves, I can sense the tension (which is rarely one way) so I build it up. I kiss girl. Girl freaks out, i say hey...isn't that what you wanted deep down....she says yes and is flustered. I get another LONG kiss from her. She freaks out, says she will talk to me later and leaves. Heh its funny because it was so cute, I caught her so off guard she left before she f'ed me lol. She will be back.

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    Default Re: I seem to lack interesting things to talk about with women

    It sounds to me like we both have had the same problem that I have resolved, and I hope this helps you too. I found that my problem was that I let it get dirty. The problem is that your giving her what she wants over text, why would she go on a date with you? Everything is great over text, she doesn't want to ruin it with a date that could end with no more dirty texting, you have to get her wanting the dirty text and stop abruptly by saying that she will see how it ends after your date Friday night. Get her wanting it, but don't give it to her. Thats how you control the relationship.you have to be more alpha and refrain from giving her what she wants.
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