I have not really posted on here for advice in the past few months. I haven't read much PUA material, I have just been going out and meeting people, building a social life and of course working on my game every chance I get. I read a post earlier about how its fun to blow yourself out sometimes just to see how it works out, its so true with the exception of the not getting laid part. I have been working on my clothing (accessories are where its at), physical appearance and frame.
Now I regularly text women, I have a few that actually pursue me, which I usually use as social pivots to get into parties with lots of girls and what not.
I don't have much of a problem opening or approaching or anything, but what I lack are three things.
1. Interest - I find it difficult to find a woman I share any common interests in...this leads to me just having to lead and almost force the conversation sometimes. I have gotten good at hiding it, but its still uncomfortable. This leads me to believe that I need to find a way to have more value raising conversation material for better fluff
2. I get self conscious most of the time, especially with the more attractive women because most of the women I pull aren't that great looking. They pick up on this. I am still finding it hard to be comfortable around them. This is when we are doing things together, not the initial pickup.
3. Where can I find new daily material and fluff that most women will be interested in talking about. Funny stories would be great too as humor is one of my main assets and is my primary weapon to drop a bitch shield.
I have some more areas I need mad work on, but these are my main sticking points making dates and activities with women fairly difficult.