Lockdown and yorba gotta agree. The problem with getting your ex back is that it requires you to be a fundamentally stronger person, and like you said these people want magic words which don't exist. This type of transformation can't happen in one post, not without a fundamental understanding of the game
side note - I posted this title simply as "RB Rant". Someone changed it to add "about getting your Ex back"
I am actually frustrated about many types of posts lol, not just the ex ones - tho they are the worst