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    Angry RB Rant About Getting Your Ex Back Posts!

    If I see another post about how to get your ex back, I'm gonna explode. You have one-itis, it ended for a reason. Either she was a bitch or you're a pansy and need to grow a pair before you approach this

    Stop asking what books to read, we've covered it thoroughly on the forums

    Stop asking why she didn't text back after your 3 texts in a row the next day, there are great threads here on text game

    Stop asking how to get rid of her BF, bf destroyers are covered

    Seriously people research for information first. If you've read 3-4 books and have an educated question about a specific item, I'm happy to help

    If you joined because you're beta and want to ask how to talk to the girl who sits next to you, you're not ready for this yet

    I want to help you all so bad, but most questions are already answered and It is such a pain to repeat time and time again

    Pua is about taking initiative to improve yourself and we can't do that for you, not until you have a grip on the basics. Read up first
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    Default Re: RB Rant

    I've only been here a week if that and I've seen a ton of this. I can't believe how much patience you pro's have answering the same questions.

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    Default Re: RB Rant

    We aren't that patient. I keep getting snarkier as time goes on, lol.
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    Default Re: RB Rant

    I agree wholeheartedly. I felt the same especially the "How to get back my ex" topics. I think most of it has to do with build up frustration and the society we live in where we go through the drive-thru instead of walking inside. And for that I cannot completely fault them for their actions.


    I think we could sticky all the important topics and when they ask the same question we can always respond with posting the link to the sticky? I know its force feeding but I guess it starts the process.
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    Default Re: RB Rant

    There are quite a few that we reference frequently that are already stickies. Virgil's Newbie Guide, The Expert Thread, Bandit's Rules to Game By, etc. It's not so much answering the same questions that bother me, because posting a link to another thread is easy. What bothers me the most is guys who look for a different answer because they didn't like what I had to say, and to a certain extent that is fine, but not when it isn't in their best interest. BatMan and I usually have different responses, but they're both "right" per se.

    If you don't like what I have to say or my style, that's cool with me. I get that. We have quite the board of guys on here who give excellent advice. But don't keep fishing around until you get the answer that you wanted to hear. That's called the mirror effect, because you aren't even asking for advice, you just wanted somebody to say back what you were already thinking. This is huge in the whole "Getting Your Ex Back" section.

    I'm just saying that if you're posting in the "Ask an Expert" or really anything that you're expecting an expert to answer, listen to them. We aren't d*cks who tell you to do stupid stuff just because we can (though I'll admit that sometimes I do that because it's funny, but you can always tell when I do). We have your best interests at heart and respond accordingly. Why? Because we've been there and don't want you to repeat the same mistakes we did. I've tripped up a lot and it's taken me a long time to get where I am now. Why do what took me three years what you can do in a few months? Efficiency.
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    Default Re: RB Rant

    You guys are on point! I've seen a ton of post concerning getting the ex back and althouugh I have been a pua member since September I have been in the game awhile. Pua to me is about using the resources and information to do better and improve your skills to where interactions and encounters become second nature. I have taken the information from pua and apply it not only to the board but to my buds in my social life to help them in their game. My recommendation is to not only read the information but apply it and most importantly follow through.

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    There is a whole page full of how to get your ex back threads, if you can't find it in there then you don't know how to read.I get that each situation is different but that would force a specific question, which as stated is totally fine
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    Default Re: RB Rant

    I'd like to add:
    -stop asking us for advice and updating us that u didn't do as we said and u're fucked now..., it's like a slap on the face. If u want it to work out do as we say period.
    -@Cody yeah i have noticed that i've been practically the only one answering the questions
    -@topgunningit Cody already made a specialist directory too.
    People just want fast answers as if there were any magic words that could help them.
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    Default Re: RB Rant About Getting Your Ex Back Posts!

    Great thread lol! Im not even an expert, so when i see people (who joined this month) post a question (their ONLY post since joining) thats AFC to the extreme ('i got drunk and didnt Fclose') and basically answered in many guides on here...I.Go.NUTS! Its like if the answer is pretty obvious to me, than it must be easy to find. The poster needs to go his own heavy lifting and SEARCH. Thats why i dont post links. Or answer pm's asking for advice (unless they just ask me to view their thread).

    Also hate this because i have a friend who did to me what cody said... wanted this girl who reconnected with him after a few years... but he kept asking me for advice until i gave up and said 'this guy is not listening.' I said do what u want... tell her u like her... guess who's she's with a few weeks later??? NOT HIM LOL!

    I love fastseduction's term RTFM ... READ THE FARKIN MANUAL!

    People think pick up is magic... that you just need one phrase and she will jump into bed with u. Thats is utterly SAD and AFC.

    Being a MAN starts with admitting your mistakes/ weaknesses, taking action to correct them and continuing to try even though u might fail sometimes.

    Oh and since we're venting... my fave is 'i know this ONE girl and i kinda like her and want her to go out with me...'

    Um yeah... and??? Take a freakin day to do some research. That stuff is covered in EVERYTHING u can possibly read on pickup Douchebag!

    Sadly, i think this trend is more common with people younger than 25 (no offense)
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    Default Re: RB Rant About Getting Your Ex Back Posts!

    I must admit that I first discovered PUA by trying to get my ex back and eventually it lead me here. But I'm so glad I found it because it not only helped me move on, but gave me the tools to improve almost every relationship I have in life.


    But I do agree that anyone looking to get their ex back need not even post a new thread. Pretty much every situation and/or contigency is covered numerous times in that particular section of the forum


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