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Thread: She says it's getting kinda weird!

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    Default She says it's getting kinda weird!

    Hi guys. It said I had to make a post in 24hrs, so I hope this is up to snuff. Thanks!

    I'm a playful guy who doesn't get weirded out by strange conversation topics. So when a girl says something kind of strange, I like running with the concept and seeing how far we can take it together.

    I should probably hold back at some point, but I like it when I find girls who can go toe-to-toe with me in this game.

    Something like this.

    ----
    Her: I had a dream where I was swimming in a pool of goat cheese.

    Me: Are you kidding me? Who wouldn't want to swim in a pool of goat cheese! Even better, a goat cheese jacuzzi, blasting warm cheese from the jets.

    Her: Yes! There should be a whole club where all the pools are different foods. We should plan a food pool party! I'll wear a "martini" dress!

    Me: Yeah, and people can like, use lavash wraps as towels and then eat them after they dry off.

    Her: Haha, this is getting a bit weird! I don't know where to go from here...

    ----

    So what's a good kind of response here? I have ideas, but I don't want to bias the answers, so I'll let you guys take it.

    Arigatou

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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    I should point out, this is not a conversation that actually happened, it's just the kind of conversation I'm talking about.

    I'm not looking for a response in this specific conversation. I'm asking more about what kind of tactical shift I should be making here and how I should proceed with that.

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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    Continue it as long as she does but dont be afraid to switch topics and go back to some level of normalcy. I also like a girl who can talk about crazy stuff and has imagination but you need to use it sparingly. You can always reference back to a conversation later.

    Also some girls might be really whacky via text but can be more ordinary when you meet up and vice versa...so what you text about is kind of irrelevent so long as you are building attraction and escalating towards a date.

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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    The main thing is to not get too far into rapport, when you do this you will only be left as a friend and not someone she envisions of having sex with. You need to add some sexual tension and the best way to do this is to break rapport and create a new thread afterwards.

    I see what you're doing with the whole crazy/interesting conversation which is good as it is but if you carry on with the same topic then awkward silences would occur. Make the interaction the centre of attention and not the topic you are on.

    If I feel that the conversation is going too far into rapport and she's getting too comfortable I would something along the lines of:
    "If we keep talking about this I'm going to charge you 200$ an hour for therapy. Do you have your credit card with you?"

    “You have a really sexy and mischievous smile, like you’re totally up to no good. Haha I like that.”

    "That thing you just did with your hair… is driving me crazy… I actually wasn't paying attention to a word you just said…".

    These little lines are incredible to use because they break rapport (which is a gamble but you have to be willing to lose a girl) which therefore brings in an underlining sexual tension.

    Introduce games that start off innocent and end with sexual topics, like I said before, playing too much into the comfort and rapport area will kill you, break it and introduce that sexual tension that will get her attracted to you.
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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    I love the charging for therapy bit, another way I would do it, in order to keep from building rapport, say, so aside from thinking about whatever it is your talking about, Do you ever do anything normal?
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    The idea is a great interaction.
    I use similar topics like that myself.

    But don't rely on a hypothetical convo to play out exactly as you imagine it will. (OR... make sure you have several possible directions it could end up going, so you have a better idea of your next response.)

    But, I've actually had girls tell me the convo was getting weird, or strange, or "out there". etc...
    A few good replies if that happens are things like:

    "Ohh, you have NO idea! "

    "You're absolutely right; so why did you send it off in that direction? hahaa!"

    "Weird? Hmmmmm, you might be right. OK it's your turn to pick a random topic. "

    But also, just as "TheManSohan" said - don't linger on one specific topic for too long. Things risk getting stale & her losing interest; so don't be afraid of introducing NEW, random things out of the blue.

    If you sense the interaction beginning to stall, whatever her last reply is, just change the topic in your next text.

    "OMG! I just remembered something funny... blah blah blah.."

    or

    "Hey! have you ever blah blah blah?"

    or

    "Why do people always seem to blah blah blah...?"

    You don't have to respond to anything in her last text... just jump tracks with something new.
    Trust me, women do that all the time, so she WON'T be offended.



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    Default Re: She says it's getting kinda weird!

    Fascinating! Thank you.

    I think my biggest takeaway from all of this is Sohan's "Make the interaction the centre of attention and not the topic you are on."

    (Edit: Aramaa.... It seems that "takeaway" is official jargon. Please condescend to allow this more mundane usage.)

    Of course! Conversation facilitates interaction, but the purpose of the interaction is not the conversation. I have to remember that words are but one tool in the box.

    I'll remember to focus more on the tension in the space between us, rather than the words coming out of our mouths.

    I'm going to read more on rapport now.

    Also, as my username suggests, I was testing the waters on these forums, but I think I'll devise a real username now.

    On that note, when out to clubs (forgive me for being reticent about using the lingo) do you guys introduce and refer to each other as your PUA names, even if it is obviously not a "real" name? Do you try on different names depending on the night, but post under one name on the forum to maintain consistency? In The Game, I haven't explicitly grasped the relationship between government name, pua name, and forum name.

    Thanks


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