Honestly guys in almost at the end of my patience. Iv had that much bad 'luck' I'm just wondering whether its even worth trying. I know you shouldn't take rejection personally but..
Ok about me, I'm a pretty successful guy working wise and earn a fair bit of money, have a good amount of friends both male and female and as far as I can tell pretty good looking. (Bald but shaving it all off suits me). I also work out weights most days and train a few sports weekly.
Just one thing. I'm 24 years old and iv never been in a serious relationship.
24 years old.
I mean iv had success with girls in the past and have probably slept with 20-25 women in my life but its always either one night stands or short relationships I.e a few weeks to a month.
Il try to spell out my dating history this year if that helps. First real one this year was a Portuguese girl who's family with a friend of mine. One date that didn't go anywhere but she had MAJOR abuse issues with her ex in Portugal. I decided against anything further and she moved down to London shortly after anyway. We still talk as friends.
Next one was a series of girls I met on the net. Absolutely stunning, easily the hotter girl I dated. 9/10 in most folks eyes. Went on four dates before I got the dreaded 'I'm just not feeling it ' text. This happened again later on, as il explain.. I realized with this one I had treated her way too much like a princess, like ever other guy. Lesson learnt - or so I thought...
Next was another I met off POF, originally from Belfast. Got on great but escalated things way too quickly and tryed to get laid after two dates. Big mistake. Still text me but clearly isn't up for meeting me again. Not bothered about having another 'text buddy' so this went nowhere.
Also dated a Indian girl recently which, I thought, had gone relatively ok for the first two dates. All of a sudden the texts dry up, she doesn't bother answering my calls. Asked her out on Friday about an hour ago and again got the dreaded 'not feeling it' reply. I'd been much more cheeky with her than the rest and tried to put more kino in and generally be abit more of a cheeky guy. Made no difference, me being nice, cocky. Nothing.
I just don't know what's going, as there's honestly many 'lesser males' who seem to have more success than me.
Losing my mind here, it's driving me crazy! I put on a fairly confident Alpha personality but its difficult to keep up when your continually getting shot down!
Has anyone got any advice or been through this themselves?