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    Default She texted me out of the blue

    I went on 2 dates with this chick about a month ago that went so-so. not really all that great but she is super good looking. The other night when I was drunk at a bar she texted me out of the blue.

    Her: hey cowboy
    Me: (about an hour later) hey there
    Her: Busy?
    Me: I'm at *insert bar name*
    Her: nvmm
    Me: lol what?


    She didn't text back after that. Is she still interested? I just don't really know what to think about her texting me out of the blue

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    Either interested or bored... I guess you could wait and see if she replies again or come up with something to text her with that will build attraction. I guess you have to fold back to the dates and determine why they were not good.

    If a girl texts you full stop she is genereally interested.

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    What is something that I could text her that would build attraction?

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    Quote Originally Posted by DaytonLax14 View Post
    What is something that I could text her that would build attraction?
    She called you "Cowboy"... so you could text her something like:
    "Howdy Cowgirl! Keep those boots n spurs shined up, cause I have plans... "

    This has the fun playful vibe, but also acts as a "Cliff-hanger" which will stir curiosity & intrigue. (Essential building blocks of attraction)

    She'll most likely be too curious to ignore your text & be compelled to respond.
    So, start thinking of what your "plan" is gonna be.


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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    that's something that I would probably never say but fuck it lol i don't have anything to lose

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    Update: I texted her that spurs n boots line and this is how it went.

    Her: haha i'm not a cowgirl! but what are you plans?
    Me: come down to my friend's place, have a few drinks, then head to *insert bar name here*
    Her: Saturday night? :/
    Me: you bet
    Her: ):
    Me: what?
    Her: I have plans ): but I'm free Friday night.......
    Me: I've got a wedding Friday night
    Her: ): ):
    Me: Hmmm well keep those boots n spurs shined up cause if you're lucky I'll try again sometime
    Her: oh....okay.....lol.


    I didin't text her back after that and I am a little confused about her last text...?

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    she is disappointed thats what it means but I like that it makes her more eager to see you.


    T-MAL to the rescue lol. The text ninja.

    Quote Originally Posted by DaytonLax14 View Post
    Update: I texted her that spurs n boots line and this is how it went.

    Her: haha i'm not a cowgirl! but what are you plans?
    Me: come down to my friend's place, have a few drinks, then head to *insert bar name here*
    Her: Saturday night? :/
    Me: you bet
    Her: ):
    Me: what?
    Her: I have plans ): but I'm free Friday night.......
    Me: I've got a wedding Friday night
    Her: ): ):
    Me: Hmmm well keep those boots n spurs shined up cause if you're lucky I'll try again sometime
    Her: oh....okay.....lol.


    I didin't text her back after that and I am a little confused about her last text...?
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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    Disappointed about what exactly? I didn't really have a choice except to say maybe some other time since we are both busy.

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    seems disapointed about not being able to see u, thats good, seems to be showing some interest i think you played it perfect

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    Default Re: She texted me out of the blue

    What really builds attraction is getting in a situation where you get her to be more emotional and connected rather than a dialogue of 'lol's' and smiley symbols. To the point she will cancel her plans on saturday or strive to link up with you. You invited her out with your friends saturday but she did not invite you out with hers - really there is an opportunity there to connect together as a group - unless her saturday plans are family, work or another date.

    Your saying 'if you're lucky' you'll try again...but its clearly obvious you like her so be really careful saying that sort of thing - women can see straight through it. If she was lucky you would have kissed her second date and already be sleeping with her.

    As it stands I think she's still interested and you should be persistent to lock in a date next week. You'll have weddings and all sorts to talk about hopefully raising your value and getting her to emotionally reveal herself. Use the wedding to highlight some of your virtues and values in life subliminally projecting yourself as an ultimate catch. Be funny but also be an interesting smart guy. Good luck

    There has to be something interesting in you as well as funny. I would have not bailed out after your schedules clashes either, I would have kept going and set a casual date for sunday or early the following week.


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