Another much asked question about the dreaded friend zone.
Before I start I know that the friend zone is usually by being a wuss, creating too much comfort etc so I'd understand if I'd made it there like that... but this isn't the case!
So I met this girl in a bar, usual way, throwing a neg about her being a loner with a load of cats etc... hit it off really well, K Closed on the night etc... Now... I'm going travelling at the end of the year and told her that - initially she rolled off but it spiked her attraction. Number closed etc... texted back and forth and arranged to grab a meal.
The meal went awesome, I was giving as much comfort as I was busting on her, she was getting attracted, I escalated, K Closed her for about 30 mins on the way home (she was all cuddling up to me and shit saying how nice it was to cuddle me...) and arranged a day 3. It was so ON! She gets in that night and texts me "thanks for a lovely night", so I chucked one back, "me too, bring on the next time..." - a bit weak but it was so on I thought I was unstoppable.
So the next day I chuck her a text giving a statement about my day at work (notice no question), nothing back until the evening when I get "hey, so I've been thinking all day, and I've decided I want to be friends. Sorry for wasting your time. Xx"
What in the utter f***!!! I'm thinking it may be because I'm going travelling for an unconfirmed amount of time... not really sure how to pursue this one any further? I'm thinking Freeze out and walk away... if she comes back then it's good to go etc
Any thoughts on what happened?! Women make no sense.