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    Default Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    Hi fellas , I am an average looking guy but never take that as negative , i always full of confidence and don't have fear of rejection
    1'st Girl-
    She is a waitress and i was with a bunch of my friends i approached her i know she was working but the Sports Bar was not having that many members i asked her basic things, how is your day going looks like busy even if it wasn't , some flirtatiousness and funny jokes. I said her i would like a have a coffee one day and took her number...so now i try to text her no replies i know i am not going to get any further attention from her....what i am looking for is WHERE DID I WENT WRONG?
    2'nd Girl:-
    Met in a college bar did some kino effect spoke about her crazy life , danced together got her number so that we can blaze together one night ..texted her next day she replied but currently no replies ...WHERE DID i WENT WRONG?

    Fella's and players please give me some things which is been missing in my game...actually i don't have any games i just go in and talk random thing.
    Robbiee

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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    I think the biggest thing I can tell from your post is, you're asking the typical, boring "job interview" types of questions.
    (How's your day? Have you been busy? Where ya from? etc...)

    Guys ask girls those questions every day, all day long.
    So if YOU ask them too, you're going to be easily forgotten, as being just another guy...

    You need to do & say things that stand out & are different than every other guy that comes in.

    Be upbeat, fun & energetic, as well as positive & confident.

    Here are a couple quickies that I've used when introducing myself to waitresses, or girls who are working wherever...

    "Heya sass-ball! I'm guessing you're gonna take good care of us here..?" *wink/smile

    "Well hey there! I told them to sit us in your section, because the girl waiting that section over there, smells like my 10th grade English teacher... she was a tyrant!!" *big cheeky grin

    "Hola chica! I hope you're ready to have fun for the next 45 minutes! I'm in a mood today & EVERYTHING is funny to me... just giving you fair warning." *smile/wink

    Being playful like that will set the tone & make HER have a good time. So, you end up building attraction AND getting great service!

    =WINNING!!


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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    @ T-Mal
    Thank you for the advice...i am just new to the game so in a kind of learning phase...i had approach anxiety which is right now not a problem...but still do have problems with 3-sets
    coming back to the topic you are really right why would a girl remember the same old guys that ask regular questions...i should try and improvise something new that she remembers ...thanks for the quickies.

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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    Anytime my friend!

    I think a lot of guys are also afraid that the girl will think he's hitting on her, so they try to pretend they're just making conversation.

    That backfires because the girl either knows the real deal, or she thinks the guy is not interested, or is just too timid to be flirty.

    Girls actually prefer a confident direct approach. They don't get all "Dolled up" to go out for nothing.

    And when they're at work, they look forward to the few fun & interesting customers that come in, because everyone else is so stuffy, boring or b1tchy!

    So yeah; don't be afraid to stand out & make her notice.
    It takes a little practice, but it's something that you begin to see rapid changes & progression with, if you just do it consistently. (I'm talking just a few days!!)

    Because you realize how fun it is, so you want to do it more. Then it doesn't feel like a "task" but rather, a natural extension of your personality.


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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    @ T-Mal,
    Do you read or have you read any books at the beginning when you started playing the game or it is just all natural for you or i can say you are good observer and self-learner
    Robbiee

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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    I read EVERYTHING I could find early on!!

    Red Baron made a thread about what books we've read... you can find that here.

    Scroll down about 1/2 way & you'll see my post & what books were extremely beneficial to me when I started out.



    But I also DO have some natural skills from being a former rock drummer in a touring band... so I gained a lot of experience with girls from that alone.

    BUT, it was still kinda hit or miss.
    Most of the time the girls approached me, because of my "social status"... so I didn't have to do a lot of trying or approaching back then.

    But check out the book thread for sure!!


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    @ T-Mal
    It is really good to get an advice online from you i wont say i had a social status like you ..i was very shy and introverted until i realized if you want something in your life fight hard for it and never give it up...i will check out the books and make sure to use some of your skills ... when i will get laid i will for sure let you know my success ..this is this amateur promise lol

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    Default Re: Got 2 numbers and i need help in my game

    Quote Originally Posted by robbiee View Post
    @ T-Mal
    It is really good to get an advice online from you i wont say i had a social status like you ..i was very shy and introverted until i realized if you want something in your life fight hard for it and never give it up...i will check out the books and make sure to use some of your skills ... when i will get laid i will for sure let you know my success ..this is this amateur promise lol
    Exactly!
    I was shy when I was younger, but being in a band kinda forced me to come out of my shell.

    The best way to achieve something is to go after it!!

    And BTW- just don't scream my name when you're in the middle of scoring with a chick!
    LOLOLOL!!!


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