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    benjam60-2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Tough Situation, Girl At Work - Her Friends Like Me

    I cold approached a girl at my work saying "you look amazingly beautiful. She took alright and then I didn't talk to her for a few weeks." Her friends are both attracted to me and they started to talk to me along with her. She added me on facebook, not with the intention of interest. I hit her up and the first thing she said was "tryna bag?" I did the correct PUA stuff and I got her number at the end. She still tried to setting me up with her friends and challenging me?

    Is hooking up hopeless with her?

    I made sure you didn't think i was into looks, i negged the hell out of her but when I saw her in person, she didn't seem interested and kept recommending her friend.

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    Default Re: Tough Situation!

    I wouldn't say no hope, in fact thats when I'm most hopeful, I love a challenge, and with the girls I typically go for, aka the classier girls, they know better than to jump into bed with every guy that is attracted to her. Instead she prefers to try to set every guy up with all her friends to weed out which guys just want "a" girl, rather than that one girl, being her. She wants to know that you want her rather than just any girl, when you hit on her, rather than saying she amazingly beautiful, pick out whatever characteristics about her make her amazingly beautiful, it shows that you want what she has instead of seeing that you just want an amazingly beautiful girl. I'm not sure that this is what is happening here, but either way thats what you should do with every girl you approach
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    benjam60-2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Tough Situation!

    Yo great advice man. I really convinced her im after the inside. I love being challenged by her! I got her to txt me and I'm pushing her away this weekend and then im going to pull her in back at work and go for the shot of asking her to chill with me.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Tough Situation!

    No problem dude happy to help out when I can
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    Default Re: Tough Situation!

    Quote Originally Posted by benjam60-2012 View Post
    I cold approached a girl at my work saying "you look amazingly beautiful. She took alright and then I didn't talk to her for a few weeks." Her friends are both attracted to me and they started to talk to me along with her. She added me on facebook, not with the intention of interest. I hit her up and the first thing she said was "tryna bag?" I did the correct PUA stuff and I got her number at the end. She still tried to setting me up with her friends and challenging me?

    Is hooking up hopeless with her?

    I made sure you didn't think i was into looks, i negged the hell out of her but when I saw her in person, she didn't seem interested and kept recommending her friend.
    telling a girl she looks amazingly beautiful is not a cold approach good call on the freeze out though

    how did she challenge u ? cuz up until know she doesn't seem interested in u that way u could try to dhv yourself more in her eyes
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    Default Re: Tough Situation, Girl At Work - Her Friends Like Me

    You challenged me by trying to set me up with her friends. I DLVed her a lot by saying she dressed weird and she seemed quiet and boring --> all in aplayful way and said she seemed cool though. It's a challenge though and it sucks because I feel myself really invested in her and I don't want to be.

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    Default Re: Tough Situation, Girl At Work - Her Friends Like Me

    Quote Originally Posted by benjam60-2012 View Post
    You challenged me by trying to set me up with her friends. I DLVed her a lot by saying she dressed weird and she seemed quiet and boring --> all in aplayful way and said she seemed cool though. It's a challenge though and it sucks because I feel myself really invested in her and I don't want to be.
    Some like to thread in those tests. I went in on some girl who questioned me about other girls and challenged me constantly, and I just broke through everytime and earned some high level respect.

    Was like taking a test, and getting a 100% on it 4-5 times. Kept testing me and she didnt want to believe the results LOL.

    She kept it fun and interesting, and mildy challenging after I made it over that "hump". Its all about persistence and like the above posted said, she wants to weed out the chumps and punks looking for easy pussy.

    Plus when friends and other "interference" gets involved, who knows whats going on with her end, are her friends fighting amongst each other for you, or are they all in it together trying to set her up but shes using the other 2 as recons?

    Dont fool out and stay frosty my friend..

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    Default Re: Tough Situation, Girl At Work - Her Friends Like Me

    Quote Originally Posted by benjam60-2012 View Post
    You challenged me by trying to set me up with her friends. I DLVed her a lot by saying she dressed weird and she seemed quiet and boring --> all in aplayful way and said she seemed cool though. It's a challenge though and it sucks because I feel myself really invested in her and I don't want to be.
    Setting u up with her friends is not her challenging u she's not interested
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    Default Re: Tough Situation, Girl At Work - Her Friends Like Me

    Its really hard to know without knowing the girl and also her friends and their feelings towards you.
    1) she could be testing you, its not unheard of and its happened to me before as a test - but not consistenty
    2) One of her friends could have expressed feelings for you putting her in a tricky position between you and her friend. She will stick to her friend more than she will you right now
    3) Ask her out and if dhe truly says no, then ask her to hook you up with her friend haha

    Sometimes with work colleagues you can't beat around the bush. Just ask them out.


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