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    Default How did I do? Cute girl at work

    Today was the day that I decided to try to run "game" on a girl at work today. I'm not sure if I should be reading too much into this, but I just thought that I would get some expert advice.

    I saw her in the kitchen looking through the newspaper (I know, I could have asked if there was anything interesting in there) while she was heating up her food. I walked in to "get a napkin" and while I walked behind her I said the typical, "How's it going?" She replied, "It's going alright..."

    Me: So, how's your *computer program* running now?
    Her: It's working now...it is actually doing what it needs to.
    Me: And that is...?
    Her: Blah, blah, blah

    At this point, I noticed a pin on her top, so I decided to comment on it

    Me: That's a pretty cool pin, I don't think I've seen that before.
    Her: Oh, it came with the top. But I take it off sometimes.
    Me: It came with the top, but you took it off? (with smirk on my face)
    Her I know, I think it adds a "nostalgy" feel to it (*Yeah, I know I missed a hook point there)

    Here's where I need to know if this was appropriate, out of line or just fine. I continued with:

    Me: I don't mean to be too forward, but I think that you should smile more often...
    Her: *blushes*
    Me: Because I think that you have a nice smile
    Her: I hear that a lot actually (not sure if she meant that she is told that she needs to smile more often or that she is told that she has a nice smile)
    Me: It's also cute when you try to hide it...see, just like you're doing now! (at this moment, I'm pointing at her face)
    Her: *more blushing*

    With that, I walked away. But as I was walking away, I heard her say, "It's because I'm trying not to laugh..." (<--did she mean that she was trying not to laugh at me, or at the situation, or laugh out of nervousness?)

    The whole time, I kept eye contact. But not in a creepy way or anything. My body posture was nonchalant, but I was not slouching or pushing my chest out either.

    *Note: she's with some dude that she met through an online dating site, but I also know that things are a bit shaky

    I know that I should be "escalating kino", but there is always that fear of somebody walking in and snitching to HR or something to that manner. Can anyone provide any tips/ideas on what I should be doing or not doing? Or should I just drop this "set"? Thanks!

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    Default Re: How did I do? Cute girl at work

    You did ok, good talking about her and making her blush

    Keep building rapport and light flirting

    Kino escalation should be natural, just who you are, not creepy. I posted a guide to it
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post63332
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    Default Re: How did I do? Cute girl at work

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    You did ok, good talking about her and making her blush

    Keep building rapport and light flirting

    Kino escalation should be natural, just who you are, not creepy. I posted a guide to it
    RB, I greatly appreciate your comment and thanks for providing the Kino guide. I'll definitely have to work on building rapport, as you said, and find "appropriate" times to escalate kino.


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