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    Exclamation Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    Sup fellas hope everyone is doing well.

    So I have a question and you guys can drop some knowledge.

    OK so keep it sweet and short, do you guys change your game after she knows or you tell her that your interested? I tend to freeze out so I don't come off needy, also you definitely shouldn't give her all your attention I tend to use jealousy plots talking about other females or exs. These are just things I do, so I definitely dont recommend since I am still a nub.

    So I like to conclude by saying that I would appreciate your input and ideas.

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    Default Re: Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    I use the jealousy thing quite a bit myself, for example, I was gaming a girl last week and she told me she was a model, so I said oh, I've only dated a couple models, and she instantly started trying to qualify herself to me,but as far as chafing game goes, a little but it depends on the situation. If you direct approach a girl, she knows your interested right off the bat, so there would be no point to change, thats why that method is soeffective. Otherwise when I indirect approach, the point where I change my game is the transition into rapport.
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    Default Re: Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    Hmm.. That makes sense. My situation was kind of similar I kind of told her over text that I was going to ask this girl who's name rhymes with Tracy at work on a date (basically hinting that I was gunna ask her out sometime soon). So I am definitely gunna use those pointers.

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    Default Re: Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    Hahaha thats a great beginner line, girls love it. Let me know how it goes
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    Default Re: Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    Lol when I sent that text her reply was "so slick lol"

    Here is the full text convo if your interested.

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...i-mess-up.html

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    Default Re: Does Your Game Change Once She Knows Your Interested?

    I dont really directly tell a girl that I am interested and usually I can judge straight away whether or not she is interested. The key for me is 'potentially'. I am always 'potentially' interested in a girl. I will never say too much about how I like them until I have slept with them or got intimate with them. I will never compliment looks to a good looking girl until she meets me for a date and even then its 'you look great tonight, love your outfit'...its focussed more on how she has done herself up rather than her raw genetics. I try leave some possibility in there for the girl that I may not be truly interested so she still has to work hard to qualify herself to me. Usually by bantering on in a way that DHV's yourself it is the girl who will say the first words 'oh you are an interesting guy' 'you are funny' I send a picture 'oh handsome'. Always be 100% confident.

    You don't really have to hide the fact you like someone...I mean its completely obvious if you approach a girl...just try keep it as a 'potentially' interested scenario otherwise the girl will see you as too easy. You have to be the up guy not the down guy. The thing is so many girls you meet appear nice but could have an irritating voice, might be good looking but have a weird personality, or they might be jaded and bitter. So I always have a few safety barriers up anyway before letting my heart run wild. I am 'potentially' interested until they pass MY tests.

    I also leave suprises for them. I won't reveal certain things about myself until later. I will drop into the picture certain things Im good at or successful at but then later I will add some other things they dont know about me so you are always maintaining some mystery. You amplify that you are an interesting guy and you can use those trump cards later if you show too much interest earlier.

    If I say something too forward and revealing and I sense she is getting an ego, a quick few teases or freeze outs usually works. It's really just a case of keeping balance and keeping things moving forward. Many girls are actually insecure and need to know you are interested. Just this week a girl asked me via text 'you do like me don't you??' I just replied 'sure' and nothing else. I could have said something more cocky but I knew she was a sweetie/AFC so I said a neutral yes without any enthusiasm. If its a HB9 or 10 I might change tactics and act a little uninterested until she starts proving she is more than a face or body. So for me it's more about calibrating to the particular girl in the first place rather than worrying about changing game later. You can also use sarcasm 'Do I like you? Hell I haven't slept in 4 days thinking about you...I already have a tattoo design with your name curled up with a heart and rose...and Im starting to save for our house'. Every constraint is an opportunity.

    If a girl is going to date you she will...they are also engineering the situation all the time. Be observent.


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