so this girl i work with tells me she is broken up with her BF and ive had a thing for her.so i invite her out for a drink a few days later after flirting and getting good feedback.
"sorry i didnt text back sooner blah blah i dont know if its a good idea we hang outside of work i have a bf and wouldnt wanna disrespect him."
me- "thats too bad i thought we could have some fun together. you already have a new bf since the last one, moving quick eh? and who said im going to rip off all your clothes once we are alone i can play nice."
her- i dont think that blah blah i just dont make good decisions sometimes when i drink and ive been with this guy for 3 years and im over it. its just he's out of town untill xmas and i dont want to break up via text. Im sure you can play nice!"
she says sorry for giving me the wrong idea but we can go to the xmas party together. i told her its ok, i just she was single and i thought she was kinda sexy.
her-you think im sexy?
me- would you hold it against me if i said yes?
her- Nah i think your quite sexy yourself!
i didnt respond after that.
im lost, she wants it i can tell, but shes not going to cheat easily or break up by phone.
i feel like i can prompt this along faster then waiting for xmas but how? now if i ask her out again she is going to think sexually and have defense up. is my only option to keep gaming other girls and leave this one for later? i really think thats a bad idea and a true master would sweep her up somehow... which i could if i could get around the defense and get her out of workplace setting..please help!