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    liquid_fun21 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default My first set, help me close the deal guys...

    So I was in my college campus roaming the grounds and I saw a blonde HB7.5 sitting alone working. So I decided to go in direct. I tapped her on the shoulder lightly, smiled and opened with "Hi, I thought you looked stunning, so I came over to say Hi". Got a very slight smile and a whispered "thank you". We then got in to rapport, After about 2 mins, I said "I have to leave now, it was nice meeting you". She asked for my name, we shook hands and separated. 3 days later, she has sent me a friend request on Facebook. I haven't responded yet. How do I turn this into a day 2 and at least K-close? Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: My first set, help me close the deal guys...

    Start a conversation on Facebook chat, build rapport, get phone number

    Wait 2 days, quick text rapport, invite her out somewhere, k close
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    Default Re: My first set, help me close the deal guys...

    At least a k close? LOL somebodys setting the goal pretty high and in my opinion you coulda k closed her there or number closed, only thing I can say is not to bills rapport without attraction but it seems like you got it since she asked your name so just go for it the next time your with her,maybe kino escalation
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    liquid_fun21 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: My first set, help me close the deal guys...

    Looks like she disabled her account. I hate to say it, but I think she was just making a fake/secondary account to friend me and stalk my content. Either she is just immature or I didn't pull of the approach right.

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    TheManSohan is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: My first set, help me close the deal guys...

    Never go straight into rapport without DHVing and negging. That's killer and is the ticket to the friendzone. If anything you should have broken rapport with a statement of interest or adding in some push-pull. Example: Part of me wants to stay and talk but another part wants me to run.

    Before you enter any set, check your body language, have a false time constraint, good topics to bring up in conversation, a couple of POWERFUL DHV stories/routines about yourself and at least neg once within the first couple of minutes. You can also add a cold read in there aswell.

    Good of you to make the approach, it's good to hit the floor running but make sure you work on continuous improvement. I personally review every set I make on both the positives and negatives. Like it's been said a million times over on here: It's all just a game.
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