My first post as I decided to join because of this dilemma I have..
I first met this girl 3 years ago, and I really liked her but I chickened out and have literally not told her my true feelings in all that time... I talked to her for about 2, 2 and a quarter years after that a lot and even if she did feel the same way before which I think she may have done, she did put me in the friend zone..
But for 3/4 of a year or a year we had basically no contact, then we have started talking again and met up a couple of times and I swear the connection has re sparked because of various signals and I have jumped out of that F zone because of all that time...
Have not physically seen her in a while as University, but I am back in her area in 2 weeks... In the meanwhile, there has been a lot of texting with her texting me a lot.. I very slightly have upped the text to calling her 'beautiful' and 'amazing' and that sort of thing, saying ' something is different now' and 'i want to see you and be with you' etc. to show signs.
The trouble is at the moment she has a boyfriend... but I don't think she likes him that much. One time when she went for a night in town she constantly texted me to get me to come out.. more and more when she was drunk - then she started texting 'my bf is scary' 'my bf is pissed at me'
The question is would you say I could have got out of the friend zone and that after all this wait I have a second chance? what are my options and which avenue should I take? stick with sending out more and more signals?