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    Default What to say hit a wall

    Ok here it goes so Im working one day and this beautiful girl with sholder length hair walks up to the counter to buy something where I work at and asks do you work here alot? (Note:huge line behind her) I look up at her and shes playing with her hair every secound of the way no exaggeration. Were in doors no wind and nothing in her hair I respond back to her saying yeah its a part time job then I ask her if she works she tells me where I ask her if shes in school she says yes and tells me what school then I exstend my hand to shake hers intruducing my name and she tells me hers to make the long story short it went way better than that I just dont remember every detail. Point is I could tell she was feeling it but I made the mistake of not getting her number.

    Chapter 2 lol

    4-5 days into the week Ive been woundering if Ill ever see her again.
    Im working one day my co worker decides he wats to leave early so I worked late for me. Ends up perfect I see her and I get her number.

    I wait 5 day befor contacting her becouse I felt like everything was really good.

    I messaged her

    Me:lets have dinner friday night seven o' clock then we could go have
    some ice cream and lay mini golf after.
    (Day later)Her: Thats very sweet but I work.
    Me: hen this satuday lets o to Island grill:
    (2Days later)Me:Heyy I hope your haveing a good day youve probably been really busy at work and with school. Maybe we could get together when you have some free time on your hands
    (5hours later)Her:Sounds Alright.

    Now I know I came on to strong in the beginning and I feel thats why things went sour and yes I know it is a weak approach.

    Now heres the thing Ive let 2 weeks go by with out saying anything or calling becouse Ive been really busy but at the same time to let some time pass. Many people told me to drop her but I really dont want to I wanna pick this right back up. I really dont know what my next respones should be or how I should approach it to make a spark and keep it going.

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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    Think about it like this...what has she REALLY done to earn your interest other than her looks?

    If you had good conversation then good. Did you qualify during your conversation? Did you really establish yourself as a challenge in her eyes?

    Women will think this. They will have the initial attraction for a man, then find out how easy he is to obtain. Which tells them that they probably don't get women often and *ding ding ding* are possibly desperate. Throwing in 3 invites with very little investment on her part is furthering that idea in her mind. It is likely that the intial attraction is gone. Take this as a learning experience that when a woman approaches you or shows alot of initial interest that you want to solidify that interest by qualifying her. It will establish you as a challenge and increase the chances she will come out to see you again.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    I understand but what can I do to pick back up again with this chick what should I say to her I dont wanna drop her just yet

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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    If there is any chance then simply re-open her with a non-expectant text or one that builds intrigue.

    Non-expectant: I passed by your school and looks runned down :P (No harm if she doesn't respond, but really isn't taking charge of the situation)

    Intrigue: Omg I just saw your twin (Classic PUA text opener. Most of the time they will respond. You lose a couple of points if she doesn't respond though.)

    Have some playful banter and use some push/pull and qualify her if she responds.
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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    Also never let 5 days go by before contacting a woman. Hit her up within that hour!! I'm serious
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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    Thanks thats very helpful one more thing can you give me a few openers/initiations that I could use to make a spark and get it going again

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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    I usually use the "Omg I saw your twin" or just share something funny about my day. If you are looking for something a little more clever then check out the texting section on the forum. I'm not sure where they are though sorry. Do a search on texting do's and dont's
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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    Batman is correct when he said : Never ask a girl out 3 times in a row, within 3 conversations. What I would do if I where in your shoes would be to strike up a couple of conversations. If she is responsive then take this as the green light to ask her out.
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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    Justed used the Omg I just saw your twin opener..

    Me: Omg I just saw your twin! Even had the same tattoo

    (5min)Her:Wtf?

    I have know idea what to that

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    Default Re: What to say hit a wall

    LMAO!! I wouldn't have said the same tattoo. Lol. That is highly unlikely :P

    I would've said that she was alittle taller/shorter than her or had blonde/brunette hair. Then say that you love when women have that (whatever is opposite of what she has)

    Tell her you were teasing about her having the same tattoo then proceed with what I wrote above.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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