Re: yearlong oneitis keeps coming back
I like your attention to detail, however paying too much attention to minute details can be detrimental to your game.
You have to increase attraction. There seems to be a lot of comfort building here and, without using attraction to get her to look at you in a different light, will put you in the friend zone for sure.
Do not worry about her comfort level so much. Although it is important for a woman to be comfortable, if you are too focused on it then other aspects of your game will suffer. Like the lack of kino that you mentioned which could easily build sexual tension between you two.
So because I think you should focus on attraction rather than comfort, the next time you meet up should not be a place where you can really talk. Find a fun activity and bring her along. Like an amusment park, dave n busters, zoo, or bowling alley (yea they still work lol). This way you have a distraction and don't have to focus on "getting to know her" and build attraction.
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