Re: Cougar??? Or wtf is it??
You have to reflect on your own expectations. I don't think the age thing is an issue if you are taking care of yourself. She will look at you differently at times. Like if you do something she feels is immature she will start to look at you "well he's just a child so what can I expect." Just make sure not to let this bother you and if she is open with those types of comments then come right back at her and tease her for being old.
Also it is difficult to have relationship when only one partner has kids though. Not sure what you mean by "up to something."
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."