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    Default I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    These is a common topic to talk about, but today I got the infamous text that reads, "I hope you know were're not dating I just see you as a friend." Now all along I knew what stage we were even because I read her body language and I didn't get much flirtatous touches from her etc etc. Now I've been to several outings with this girl clubs, bars, shopping, movies. One night she told me that she is practicing celibacy.
    Last time I heard that, a few months later the girl was pregnant.

    I was to wow her with the next text I send her. I'm stomped at this point and undecided on my next step.

    P.S Really pondering about dropping the ball on her.

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    Default re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    "Definitely not looking for a relationship right now, but good to know you understand."

    Then you can ability-to-emote her about how you too are struggling with faith or tired or dating or being selebate for whatever reason. Then you two can support eachother in it, struggle together, and ultimately fail at celebacy... together
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    Default re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Paying attention to body language is good, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't escalate. Do it anyways. That was push/pull is for. To get her body to open up to you more and more, little by little.

    I like Autismus' response. It sets up another frame that will likely get a nice emotional pull on her if she has any romantic interest. Then you can effectively escalate with her sexually while you talk about how you two make such good "friends" lol.
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    "Definitely not looking for a relationship right now, but good to know you understand."

    Then you can ability-to-emote her about how you too are struggling with faith or tired or dating or being selebate for whatever reason. Then you two can support eachother in it, struggle together, and ultimately fail at celebacy... together
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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Just sent that good text. Hope I get positive feedback

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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Now I've gotten a reply quoted with this "Lol good to know i understand? U crack me up". I got a feeling this is going to go south with awkward messages and weird encounter with no conversation or kino

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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Any ideas one what I should proceed with next. Right now I'm avoiding contact or texting. Freezing is what I'm trying next but I feel as it won't work because there wasn't enough attraction built

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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Would you care much if a woman you were not into moved
    away ? This is why avoidance might not work right now.
    Spend more time around her creating sexual tension without
    verbally acknowledging any actual interest.

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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    I'm thinking it might be time to move on to a different girl. There's not enough tension or kino between you two to get out of the friendzone. Move on, game a few more girls and in a month or two you can try again.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I got a text saying I'm friend zoned

    Don't freeze her out. There's no need.

    She is obviously shit testing you. Don't shake from it. I wouldn't even respond directly to it. Start talking about something else. Almost like you never had that conversation.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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