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Thread: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

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    Default Re: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

    It takes balls to admit the truth. Hold your head up and walk with pride. What you need to do now is go get another girl there is plenty to go around for everyone.

    Trust me on this, when these girls see you having fun and also with a beautiful girl on your arm they will come around. A proven fact which still surprise me in this day and age. Anyway, there is tons of PUA material: books and these forums. Read up and enhance yourself dude. The race is not for the swift.
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    Default Re: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    Trust me on this, when these girls see you having fun and also with a beautiful girl on your arm they will come around.
    So true. Don't worry so much about the bitches, be in the moment soak up life do your thing and they won't be able to stay away. Regardless of your life situation do your thing, exude positive energy and the girls will melt.

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    Default Re: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

    Thank you so much guys I really from the bottom of the heart appreciate all the feedback and advice. Its probably going to be a while since I get over her but you live and learn.

    I had a couple of ideas and I'll appreciate feed back on them.

    1) should I fully ignore her at work, act confident and do my own thing.

    2) text her some time this week " hey hopefully you didn't took me too serious, I act silly when I am high I even texted my ex girlfriend and said something similar that's why she showed up at work" .

    3) or what I said in 2 but tell her that in person.

    Also feel free to throw any ideas you guys have.

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    Default Re: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mind Tricks View Post
    Thank you so much guys I really from the bottom of the heart appreciate all the feedback and advice. Its probably going to be a while since I get over her but you live and learn.

    I had a couple of ideas and I'll appreciate feed back on them.

    1) should I fully ignore her at work, act confident and do my own thing.

    2) text her some time this week " hey hopefully you didn't took me too serious, I act silly when I am high I even texted my ex girlfriend and said something similar that's why she showed up at work" .

    3) or what I said in 2 but tell her that in person.

    Also feel free to throw any ideas you guys have.
    I would go with option 1 for now and see how things play out. Smile when you see her though. Don't act awkward. Remember you're the "man"....and what you did wasn't really the end of the world. IMHO

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    Default Re: The Disaster - Did i mess up too far? Is there a way to recover?

    I probably wouldn't ignore her exactly, maybe just act like nothing happened, but also act like you're not particularly interested in her romantically. Act confident, funny and alpha at work for her to see, and if the opportunity comes up to make reference to other girls you're seeing, then do that. But I agree with the other posters on here - don't worry about trying to explain/justify that text you sent. I don't think that ever works.


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