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Thread: We are finally both single now but.....

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    Question We are finally both single now but.....

    Have I spent too much time in the friend zone? Been talking to this one for about 3 years now and there's always been a good connection. But circumstances have not been the best either I've been with someone or vice versa. Now I can't figure out if she is just playing with me because she's bored or if there something legitimate there. Things got interesting recently here's the texts, the day before she was talking about how she was wet all day....

    Her: *sends me goofy pics of her messing around with photoshop*
    Me: And none of them are naked...smh
    Her: lol i have this a$$ pic I have they look nice wanna see?
    5 mins later
    Her: No? lol
    Me: Sorry I was putting stuff away...and ummm yea sure (me playing it cool) *i told her i was playing it cool to let her know i was kinda excited*
    Her: Lmao ok hold on but don't make fun of my sleeping gown
    Me: Depends on how ur a$$ looks
    Her: ok ok
    Me:.......waiting
    Her: *sends pic* {very nice a$$ btw}
    Her: :O
    Her:
    Her: Did I just send you that? Omg lol
    Me: I aint gonna lie that made my D*** move lol
    Her: lmao camera takes nice pics lol
    Me: Nope you gotta take the credit for that
    Her: Just a lil bit
    Me: *sends her a pic of my moose knuckle*
    Her: Wtf lol okay this is turning a bit sexual....no no noooo (kevin hart voice) lol
    Her: U got a remote down there? lol
    Me: lol ok ok...and the remote don't curve B-)
    Her: oh lol didnt notice that, didnt wanna pay too much attention lmao
    Me: That aint nothing but male camel toe
    Her: Did my picture get it big like that?
    Me: yea you got me medium swole lol

    She kind of changed the subject a little bit then I said something about the craigslist killer sending me an email

    Her: Wtf lol give him the D
    Me: lmao bad b1tches only
    Her: I'm out lol
    Me: Trying to disqualify urself huh? That my decision!
    Her: oh fck lol
    Me: Don't sound so excited
    Her: I tried not to lol I'm playing it cool

    Subject changed again but a few days later I invited her out to a movie, she said she gonna ask for a babysitter then let me know. I didn't contact her until the night of she said she forgot and to wait so she could get a baby sitter real quick, I told her not to worry about it and didn't text her back. We talked a few days later and I told her I was mad at her about it and she said she was mad at herself too. We are back to lite texting back and forth, she made a joke about me walking on my 3rd leg.

    Where should I go from here guys? Seems like she is just playing with me, there alot of sexual jokes between her and I but are they just jokes or is there something there?

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    Default Re: We are finally both single now but.....

    First of all, girls don't want to see your moose knuckle. Nobody wants to see your moose knuckle. The penis is not a pretty thing to look at, no matter whose it is. Take a picture of your bare chest, girls find muscles a lot sexier than gentleman sausage.

    Second, your text game seems good. Just a few points. Try not to use Ummm, in text or real life. It makes you sound indecisive. Go for pauses (when talking) or ellipses (the three periods in a row ...). Also, don't be reactionary. That means don't get mad about things she does. If she does something that goes against your rules, you tell her in a firm, cool way. Don't get mad. Getting mad proves she can control your emotions.

    Sexual jokes lead to sexual comfort. You just need to meet up and make sure you maintain that sexual tension. Reference some of your inside jokes a few times just so she connects the person she's been texting with the person sitting next to her.
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    Default Re: We are finally both single now but.....

    Seems pretty standard what's going on here. The chances of you bedding her are honestly 50/50. She may want it one moment, then not the next. Very high risk for LMR. If you want to increase your chances to,say, 80/20 then you have to play alittle hard to get. When she sent that photo, it was a good time to mess with her a little.

    You: "Wow you are sooo bad. What am I going to do with you?"

    Her response

    You:" I would send you one myself. But I don't want it being sent all over the internet."

    Her response

    You:" Ok I will send you one. Under one condition. That no one else sees. This is only for your eyes."

    Then let her respond to the photo and change the subject. Helps build tension.

    Also try not to completely solve yourself sexually. Especially since you are friends. If she knows that you are willing to, then all the power is in her hands because you don't know for sure that she is willing to. Not a bad place if the feeling is mutual and you are sure she will go through with it. But risky because you are friends and she can change her mind at any moment. Leave a little mystery until you are in bed without clothes on.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: We are finally both single now but.....

    Thanks guys, I try not to make myself too available to her and keep myself occupied with others. I've been out of the game for a while so I know I'm a little rusty.

    Right after I sent the picture, I immediately thought it wasn't a good idea. But by that time it was too lately so I knew I just had to own it.

    And about the whole getting mad thing, she just became a victim of the circumstances that day. I had a bad day at work, then received some bad news like right before and her "forgetting" just set me off. I'll work on that though.


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