Re: We are finally both single now but.....
Seems pretty standard what's going on here. The chances of you bedding her are honestly 50/50. She may want it one moment, then not the next. Very high risk for LMR. If you want to increase your chances to,say, 80/20 then you have to play alittle hard to get. When she sent that photo, it was a good time to mess with her a little.
You: "Wow you are sooo bad. What am I going to do with you?"
You:" I would send you one myself. But I don't want it being sent all over the internet."
You:" Ok I will send you one. Under one condition. That no one else sees. This is only for your eyes."
Then let her respond to the photo and change the subject. Helps build tension.
Also try not to completely solve yourself sexually. Especially since you are friends. If she knows that you are willing to, then all the power is in her hands because you don't know for sure that she is willing to. Not a bad place if the feeling is mutual and you are sure she will go through with it. But risky because you are friends and she can change her mind at any moment. Leave a little mystery until you are in bed without clothes on.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."