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    Default The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Ok so I met this girl at a party last weekend, and this weekend we decided to meet up at a club.

    We were dancing, and fluffling it up all night. As the night progressed I got more and more aggressive, and she ended up grinding on me for a few hours.

    We got super drunk. She asks if I want to go to my place or hers, and we end up going to her place.

    We almost hooked up, but it just didn't work out.

    It kinda got awkward, and she didn't want to continue. She said she "didn't know me" and she started asking me if this was a "One night stand"..etc.

    Basically she asked me to leave, and was very apologetic about the whole thing, and she blamed it all on the alcohol.


    My question is: Should I text her,and ask how she is feeling today??

    I could use some really good advice, thanks.

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    I should add that when we were going to her place, we got into a few arguments. She was very agressive, and seemed pissed at me for having pictures of a "white girl" sitting on my lap on facebook.

    Also she was asking me if one of the girls on my facebook was my mom..Seemed rather disrespectful. I confronted her about it, and told her it wasn't cool to talk about my mom.

    I know these were all little shit tests, so I wanted to give you guys some background info.

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    i think give it a few days let her think some and text her want to get some coffee or lunch. nothing to big just a small get together
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    i think give it a few days let her think some and text her want to get some coffee or lunch. nothing to big just a small get together

    Anyone agree, or disagree with this?


    I feel like I should text her, and ask her how she feels. We got pretty drunk, and asking her about her hangover isn't too Beta..or is it?

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    She kicked you out, she has to pay the price for it. You're the prize, not her. Remember that. Wait a day or two to text her and see if she wants to get coffee as suggested. DO NOT bring up what happened. Act like it didn't matter and didn't bother you. If she brings it up, play it off as no big deal and change the topic. You shouldn't dwell on the bad and you shouldn't let her either. So just wait a few days and meet up for some coffee or drinks or something.
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    She kicked you out, she has to pay the price for it. You're the prize, not her. Remember that. Wait a day or two to text her and see if she wants to get coffee as suggested. DO NOT bring up what happened. Act like it didn't matter and didn't bother you. If she brings it up, play it off as no big deal and change the topic. You shouldn't dwell on the bad and you shouldn't let her either. So just wait a few days and meet up for some coffee or drinks or something.
    Yeah you are right. She did kick me out. LOL

    I think she either disqualified me, because I was having trouble getting it inside her. (Lights were turned off, and we were both drunk).

    OR she felt like it was too fast too soon..

    What do you think was the case here?

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Yeah you are right. She did kick me out. LOL

    I think she either disqualified me, because I was having trouble getting it inside her. (Lights were turned off, and we were both drunk).

    OR she felt like it was too fast too soon..

    What do you think was the case here?
    A little of both (probably a lot of ASD) Coffee or even a casual dinner is good and will decrease her BR a bit. Don't go for drinks or clubbing tho cuz then she'll think you're chasing poon
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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Yeah you are right. She did kick me out. LOL

    I think she either disqualified me, because I was having trouble getting it inside her. (Lights were turned off, and we were both drunk).

    OR she felt like it was too fast too soon..

    What do you think was the case here?
    It was probably more because of escalating too fast, which led to some buyer's remorse. If she was starting to sober up or things were slowing down because you were having trouble getting it in, she probably started thinking about things, which is the worst thing a girl can do to a PUA haha

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Coffee or even a casual dinner is good and will decrease her BR a bit. Don't go for drinks or clubbing tho cuz then she'll think you're chasing poon
    Good call, try and stay away from the alcohol. Because of the "bad" experience with it the last time that you went out together, go for something else such as coffee.
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    Thank you guys. Y'all are fucking awesome.

    I'll wait a day or two, then text her.

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    Default Re: The Morning After. Weird night..Need Advice

    I know you guys gave some really good advice, but I can't help having this nagging feeling that I need to talk to her.

    She probably thinks i'm some kind of player..because she keeps seeing pics of me with girls on facebook, and she sees that women keep approaching me..

    She most likely thinks I just want a one night stand, but I really like this girl.

    The longer I wait to text or to call her wont be counterproductive ? She might just want to move on, because I am not showing that I really care for her?


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