Hey everyone! I'm new to the forum and this is my first time posting because I am looking for help on sarging a group.
I just wrote a whole page about the situation that brought me here, but it ended up getting deleted So, I'll quickly fill you on what happened.
I was at a friends drinking when he managed to get about 5-6 girls from his college over to his house. When the girls got there I picked out a target and tried to start by making some neutral friendly comments to build comfort with the group as a whole, because I did not go to the same school as everyone else and didn't know any of them.
This became difficult because hardly any of the other guys (who knew the girls) were trying to talk to them, besides small interactions here and there. The more time that passed, the more resistance I received. It was never anything negative or offensive, I just never got the POSITIVE feedback I was looking for
I talked to a couple of the girls (none of which were my target) and had some fun conversations going 1 on 1, but as soon as they got back into their group... It was like it had never happened.
The girls stayed in a group on a couch for pretty much the whole hour they were there. They left with me not building any foundation with any of them or even talking to my target.
I know the situation wasn't set up for a hook up, but my goal was maybe get a number close or at least leave an impression so that the next time I met up with them I would have a foundation to build off of.
So, my question to the experts is how can I improve my group approach and opening in a situation like this or to build some friendly rapport to leave a favorable impression for a future meeting?
Thanks guys, I look forward to your replies and comments and am glad to have joined!